Here's the story.

Met this girl at my job, she's a model and she came to my rock climbing center to get classes because they were doing a demo for us a few days after. I talked to her there for a bit, really liked her and she was kinda flirty. She is probably HB8 but extremely charming. She has a boyfriend for 3 years at the time and I didn't make a move or anything.

She came back a few weeks after her classes to pass the certification and she saw me. She asked for my number because she wanted to go rockclimbing with me. From that point we started flirting and texting each other. We went for a couple of drinks, she invited me a few times to clubs. We basically seen each other a bunch of times and had really great time, she's always telling me how pretty I am, how I have a nice smile, touching me.

She says she's bored with her boyfriend, she said she liked me, but I'm doubting her feelings. She acts very flirty around most guys, she has 3-4 guy friends that she sees regularly, although apparently they have girlfriend I can tell she likes the attention.

For the past 2 weeks we texted about 400 times, usually she will call me after her job for a few minutes (That kinda annoys me), although we did speak on the phone for an hour and a half one night. I basically fell in love with that girl, and I think she knows. She texted me once something like ''Woah I really miss you, that's new I'm usually miss independent.'' Or texting that she missed me, or wants to cuddle me.

She also told me once she thought I couldn't handle her, that she was really independent and that she'd probably make me sad. I told her I could handle, package and ship about any girl in the world. Haha.
I'm thinking that I need to be straight about this, tell her that I'm not going to waste my time around with a girl that has a boyfriend, to get things straight with him and let me know..I'm thinking either she flirts like that with most guys or she really likes me and it caught her off guard just like it did with me and she's in a big dillemma.

Once I got pissed at her because I told her I liked her and said that I needed to stop saying that because it made her feel guilty. That was over the phone. When I saw her face to face the same night we discussed that, she asked me to say it to her that I liked her, I did, and she replied ''I like you too, now I feel guilty'' kinda playfully.

I went drinking one night and was totally drunk and I texted her some AFC shit like ''I'm worried that you might be doing this for the thrill, like you flirt with other guys and stuff'' To which she replied '' For the thrill? Do you really think I'd get a thrill out of meeting a new guy, questionning my life and maybe risk changing it?''

I'm thinking things went a bit downhill from that point but the next day she was at a staff party with her girl friends and she said that she was getting emotional, and that it was a good thing I wasn't anywhere near her, that she missed me.

I'm seeing her tommorow, we're supposed to hang out. I don't know how I should act with this girl. I want to make her into a LTR girlfriend. Should I freeze her out or keep hanging out, be honest and Alpha and maybe try to kiss her?


Thanks for taking the time to read!

Have you been rejected by her for making a move? If not just escalate the situation. At least that way you'll know where you stand.

Today I went to her place and watched a movie with her.

Tried kino escalating a bit.

Lots and lots of touching and cuddling, her resting her head on my chest and kissing on the cheeks, she was playing with my hands al the time etc.

At some point she was leaning on me I tried to give her a kiss on the cheek and she kind of pulled back.

I was like ''that was just a kiss on the cheek''..

I think it's fair though I wouldn't feel good about the situation if I kissed her while she had a boyfriend, I want to make her mine. It sounds like she has a line she's not gonna cross.