Entered her place. Gave her a kiss on the cheek, hug whatever. Talked a lot about future travel plans. Past stories etc. Did the index vs ring finger testosterone, estrogen hand test to build some more kino. Went to her room to watch a film. Told her how I didn't usually ask about ex boyfriends but wanted to know about hers. She went on about how he used to call and text all the time etc etc - obviously she hadn't like that.

Then I got the question I'd been waiting for: 'so what happened with your ex.' Now here's a guilt trip routine you can use. I was like 'well this last girl, she was weird you know, we were kissing, it was getting all passionate but then she didn't want to have sex with me. After that we fell out. She said I was arrogant and I just thought she was a fucking weird person.'

Anyway I comforted her to sit on the bed, watch a film and everything. Started to kiss her, getting all heated, slipping my hands in all the right places etc etc, but then I got the standard LMR. I just used Neil Strauss's technique. Paused the film she was playing, lay back, folded my arms, ruined the moment. We started talking, she brought up the ex girl incident, I told her that I wasn't going to judge her, anything that happens is just between me and her, i'd only do what made her feel comfortable, didn't want to pressure etc etc. Anyway after that I got back to business and she gave it up for me.

Thing is I kinda like the girl. i don't want to fall for her like a sucka but want to keep seeing her. It's her b day this week and she's got loads of stuff on so she said she can only see me next week, and she wants to go to the cinema etc, when I just want to fuck her again. The sex was shit, but there's potential. I'm just a bit annoyed that I don't know what to do now. I haven't really got much to say to her by text or on the phone, so I'm left holding my dick in my hands waiting to see whether things will work out or not. Just unsure where to go from here. Before starting this PUA stuff, I was used to sleeping with slappers and the occasional escort, this is entirely new territory for me, it's confusing and all moves tooo slowly