Hi,

I had a legendary first date* with an angel last weekend and immediately scheduled another date for next weekend. Is it ok not to text/call for a whole week until the next date?

* = 50 megatonnes of rapport and IOI's but no k/f-closes

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AFC from hell

Go for it man.

I'd do something kind of cocky funny.

Say Hey, sorry if i worried you, It's been a pretty crazy week for me. What have you been up too.



Or something else. Make sure to add something to let her know you haven't forgoten about her, because when you txt after a week asking for a date...all she hears is....hey how about some dick.

Hope that helps.

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Hesitation leads to Masturbation

Well, yeah, I would say that it is ok. I have done it and it has worked.

One thing that I like to do when I get into comfort with a girl is to create some internal jokes. Then whenever you feel like it you just send her a text referring to that joke. Based on something you just saw (just made up). A good way to let her know that the second date is still on.

If you got a week in between and feel like sending her something... Do it like one day or two before the next date.

Yeah, I know, I do the text thing, not everybody likes that but I think it is nice because it shows that you arent that into it yet...

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

yeah not bad

Thanks a lot guys, I'll send her something tomorrow when it's 2 days until the date.
She told me her favorite band and how she really loved it. Should I tell her I heard it on the radio and it reminded me of her or the date? (kind of 80's band and not that common to hear it on the radio) (I actually did hear it and it did remind me). I know its corny as hell but I've been trying to make up something kind of funny-cocky to say but it's really difficult since she doesn't speak english so all american/british cleverness with words will just be read directly and any hidden humour inside it will be lost in translation.

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AFC from hell

Sent her a mixture of the two advices above yesterday, semi cocky with internal jokes. No reply yet. Will meet her tomorrow.. Should I just show up or should I send her 2 hours before "Are we meeting at 6?"

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AFC from hell

I got a reply 6 hours before the date. A flake SMS.
Her: "Hi [myname]! I cannot meet you today sorry, the next week I'll see you, ok? kisses"
Me: "Ok [hername] see you next week! It will be fun to see you again, Cheers [myname]"

Should I flush this down the toilet and move on, or is something still going on there?
Please advise me on my next move.

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AFC from hell

Move on.

If she's interested or whatever, she'll re-organise something ... but personally I think you're beginning to waste time. Just go and game other girls. If she gets in contact with you - great. If not - you haven't spent time thinking about her.

You could flush it down, or like twistn said if she's interested she'll organise something to make it up.

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Thanks Twistn, Thanks mcode87

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AFC from hell

Hey Atila

This is probs a bit late but your situation got my interest.

U started off really well mentioning ur great date*!

2 reasons why I rate it fizzled out and u got a flake text message:

1. You set up ur next meeting during ur first date* and by doing that, taking away a lot of mystery about yourself. You didn't give her that "Is he going to call me?" "Does he like me?" "am I going to see him again?" feeling that drives girls nuts 4 a guy! you could have instead waited 3-6 days to generate this feeling.

2. You set up ur next meeting during a weekend. Stick to the weekdays always in the beginning. Even if she was keen to see you, the chances of her being busy with people she trusts and feels obligated to see are a lot higher on weekends. + it says a lot about yourself (DHV), you're a busy man and it gives her something to work for (Challenge).

Keep em' guessing 100% of the time and they'll never stop chasing you.

Hope this helps!