I picked up an 8 with a very very high ego the other day. I basically super negged her, and threw it in her face that she wasn't all that while being joking about it. After i f-closed her, we've been starting to hang out more and she's super into me (see my lay report if you want more details.) She's gotten to the point where she's told all her friends how amazing I am (I don't know exactly how this works, I've been a total dick to her) and how much she likes me. I still jokingly bring her down and neg her a ton (I've never seen a girl with an ego like hers.) But now that I've basically got her (her friends are begging me to ask her out because she wont shut up about me) should i let up on the negging and be kinder?

Are you sure you aren't teasing her?

Negs are really just disqualifiers used in the beginning of a set to make a girl actively think that you dislike her.

Teasing is more sarcastic. It's funny- everybody laughs. It creates familiary, and shows that you're comfortable meeting total strangers and just treating them like you've known them for a while.

Depending how harshly you're negging, it could just be flirty...

to be more serious with her..be less flirty and show you actually have a human side! one that she wants to lie next to the morning after...

go into more comfort..and naturally you should neg less, throw in the occasional tease as Riott says otherwise she will wonder where the guy she met went..

do not neg whilst having sex...i have made this mistake..it was funny at the time but shes gonna look back on it and think you are a dick!
"whats your name again?" *grabs named necklace* "oh yeah *******"
and " wow..first date..that was easy" after the event...

amusing..but not cool!