So I got to know these two girls and occasionally we meet up for coffee. Lots of banter and laughing when we do.

Now, one of these girls (my target) mentioned she likes salsa dancing and thats something I have been doing with friends few times. So this week, when I met her and her friend again (a friend of mine was there as well) I told her we should go salsa dancing sometime. Her initial reply was "I have been thinking about that myself!", and she seemed very happy. Then she said something like "but my friend and your friend should go as well".

So I went back to office and I noticed she send a mssg via facebook to the four of us. I replied picking a date, she replied and then it went quiet. My friend told me he feels like it is a date between me and my target and he shouldnt be there. Now, my target and her friend share the same office and I am sure they ve discussed this as well.

What should I do next? Obviously this is the opportunity to meet my target 1 on 1. Obviously she ll feel uncomfortable without her friend going, so she might flake. Also, the set date is quite far ahead, so Ill need to keep it alive.