hello first (sorry if this post is in the wrong section. didn't know where else to put it)

so i'm going to write a short story that changed my life. it's about a girl. and at the end i have a problem/question and it would be great if one of you could give me an resolution/answer.

so there is was. 17 years old. always the freaking nice guy. i had the looks and that's probably why I even had some girls. by that time i fell twice in the LJBF zone. i cried about how the nice guys always finish last. i was 100% AFC.
so then i met a girl. a year older than me. we started to hang out and of course i did my usual AFC shit. paid for everything, being even afraid to touch her. it went on for like 2 or 3 months like this. i called her then once and asked if she could imagine herself with me (seriously, how afc was i?). she said yeah, that's why she's hanging out with me. so i continued my afc stuff. still didn't kiss her or anything. few weeks later i wanted to talk with her about "us". she put me in de LJBF zone. i crushed guys. there was number 3. and three in a row. BUT..

..that's when i realized i had to change something. started to read books (mm, david d, magic bullets, badboy lifestyle). i realized what an huge idiot i was. i was reading and practicing for about 2 months. i didn't see the girl in the meantime. but i was dating other girls (even a model, but she was boring as hell..). i was getting better in my game and becoming a better man. true story. so then i met the girl again. i started to talk more sexual, be more sexual, some kino, some patterns. she said i changed a lot since she saw me the last time. she was horny as hell. at the we kissed. no making out, a passionate, emotional kiss. she grabbed me and pulled me in twice to kiss me and said i'm such an ass while kissing me. HA. and of course i ended the kiss.

then she went to africa to help children for three months. didn't see her for 4 months actually. in the meantime i was still getting better. even had my first same-day-lay. i changed the way i speak, walk, stand, act. everything. but i'm still nice to the girls. they love it. they say that they always find the nice guy boring but not me. i'm different.

so the girl comes back from her trip. we meet and she says she's looking for a real long term relationship. now don't get me wrong. i could forget about her and live my life and date other girls (well i do that). but sometimes you meet a girl and she's just different then all the other girls. something special and you want her. maybe i also want her to proof myself that i can do it! well.
so where was i.. yeah LTR. i was like, we'll see. the next day she writes me a text: please give me more time, i don't want to lose you.
we meet a week later. i was like what you talking about me giving you more time. i never pressured you or said anything. i wanna do it slow just like you. she apologizes for the text. she says she don't know why she wrote that. so we hit it off that day. really nice evening. i was feeling that she was really into me. hand holding (for the first time. mayor achievement for me. because she's not very emotional or touchy-feely. she likes to stand on her own feet and be independent. that's why she always wants to pay movies, drinks, etc.).
so. she says she had the best evening in her life. we say goodbye and she says we will stay in touch. 4 days later i ask her to hang out on the weekend. she says she can't, she's not in town for the weekend. i'm like cool, no probs. so then i ask her 7 days later again. no response. i call her. she doesn't pick up the phone. i call again two days later. nothing. i wrote a text "i'm not gonna call you again cause that would be too stalkerish. call me when you got time". nothing.
so friday night. i see her at a bar with a guy. i'm with my friend. i go to her and say hi. what's up. she says "nothing". the guy who was with her backed up when he saw me. pussy lol. (and i i have to say that she has many many guy friends. orbiters.) she looks me in the eyes with an very awkward look. i just nod and leave.

so i text her few days later why she's acting like that (afc again. deamn!) she writes back: "yeah i know. we need to talk...!"
i'm like hell no! the weneedtotalk-line. i text a smiley back. like i'm not worried.

so that was almost two weeks ago. didn't hear from her. didn't contact her. what should i do? i really want to get this straight. i need it. not her. but the I CAN DO IT / I DIT IT feeling. should i call her, text her, ignore, i don't know guys. help me with this one



sorry for the ultra long post.

anyone?

Tough call, but Id say go with your own advice from another topic:

"what i learned is: if she doesn't write back after the second time, don't write her or call her again. wait. most likely she will get at you few days (could be weeks) later. and if she won't then she wasn't interested anyway and there's nothing you could have done anyway."

The ultra long post is okay. It is much better if you write every important detail it is easier to help. when someone writes like "Ahh there's this girl in school who I really like what should I do?" it is impossible to give accurate help. Now after the little off:) You really should not call her because it is clear that not only you but the girl is confused too. Give her time to think this over and continue to live your life. Don't make a big deal of this. How do you do that? Of course dating other girls. You can find something special in most of the girls not only just one. Keep that in mind:) Good luck!

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thanks man. yeah. i think the more girls i meet the sooner i will find a special one again. so i'm not gonna call or anything. even if nothing happens anymore, i became a different man (NO, i became a man) and she opened my eyes and i found out about pick up.

PS: like you said, in MOST of them. i dated a model once (looks: 10) but i've never seen a boring person like her. haha. so i'll be searching and having fun doing it.