Hey guys, out at the bar sat, and got one of 2 HB9's begging for my number. my brother was with me, playing the game. after I denied her a couple times, and my brother chiming in with "he doesn't give his number out to random girls", the ladies seemed to lose interest immediately, and just kinda give up. seems like immediately after that we were ambushed simultaneously by two guys who ended up taking them away and didn't see them for the rest of the night. at that point i really didn't care because they weren't even the girls we were working over, just some randoms I danced with for 10 or so minutes.

I'm beating myself up because I know now that the smart thing would have been to get her number, instead punking her.

now, if i were to try to get them back by busting in, it would be a massive DLV especially coming from such a high DHV as the non number give, so i played like i didn't care, which i didn't because our target ladies saw the girls begging and me denying. however, what could i have done in that situation if I wanted to get those girls back? I kinda looked at my brother and said, okay dude, i got nothin haha. fuck that, stick to the plan. keep in mind these boys had game, i could smell it. there shit was planned and timed perfectly. respect.

anyways, any suggestions?

You can't win em' all. I think after they went with the other guys you blew it. As you said going back to try and get their number would have been demonstrating lower value, they would have thought you were jealous as well. Some situations are damn near impossible to fix and this is one IMO.

See it as a learning curve, don't be such a frigid bitch next time and giver her your number!

I think you may have pushed too much and maybe not enough pull.

I think you should've just exchanged numbers. So if she's asking for yours, just give her a piece of paper and a pen. And if she asks what it's for, give her a "what else would it be for look"

I completely forget who came up with the method, but I've tried it a few times and it's worked quite well for me.

I don't think there is a plan if you wanted them back. Like DesertSun said, if you went back you would DLV.

Let's say they where the targets tho. Then how do we get them back? DLV by going back to them and trying to repair from there, or DHV by ignoring and risking them hooking up with the other players?

I shall give a quote from Casanova which might answer your question, in this quote, Casanova gets sued by this woman because she claims he had sex with her on promise of marriage...

I guessed at once what was the matter, and
felt no surprise when I saw the woman Marchetti and her daughter.
His excellency asked me if I knew them.

"I must know them, monsignor, as one of them will become my wife when
she has convinced me by her good conduct that she is worthy of that
honour."

In a seduction, if the partner wants to escalate the level of commitment...ie "in love" to "getting married" or "some guy I met in the bar" to "guy I gave my number to" you shouldn't outright reject them, that just makes you kind of a dick. You set the bar a little higher so you can get more out of them. But your requests have to be worded in a sense of searching for a compatible person, not like you are just exploiting the situation for your own benefit.

Say you're the type of guy that's looking for a girl who can give him what he needs, then kiss close, and if she goes with it then you give it out.