Hey Guys

Being away at college has been great for my game, because every time you go out its new girls and no consequences. You can go for broke which is the only way to really learn,,,See how far you can push the escalation etc.

Problem is, now I am back home and the options in terms of game are really very limited.

There is a girl who I tried it on with in a RAFC way before I left, asking her to things etc, and she always said she'd love to but was busy etc. Then yesterday I saw her in the club, and she kept looking at me, then she made a point of coming and dancing with me like 3 times.

I may be wrong, and it could be me making an excuse, but she is a very well raised classy girl, and I would have problems escalating with her on the dancefloor. So I decided to go for the day 2. Saw her outside and arranged to do something, for the following week (I am not around this week( very eager and lots of kino. bit of hand brushing etc.

The guy I got in a taxi with (and he knows her a little) was like mate that chick was all over you. I'm pleased cos I like(d) her. Called her today but no answer so text just saying tried to call hope you're good. She replied Hello! Sorry was at work. Was nice to see you last night! xxx"

I havent replied.

Thoughts and ideas? I have problems gaming girls I knew before game, if that makes sense.

Many thanks for any help


Max

Keep your cool man, everything is going great! Just don't fall into the trap of playing it "too cool" when she gives you IOIs, just because she's a "classy girl with options". She has to feel like you both have a special connection that makes you different from those other guys, so reward her IOIs with more IOIs. Stay alpha, be cool, be a great lover.

Reckon its worth texting this week whilst I am away? Or leaving it till I get back

I text her yesterday just some bullshit asking her how she was getting on at work and things and telling her to entertain me cos I was a little bored. No reply today so I had planned to wait till tomorrow and then drop a re - engager in?

Not sure, maybe wait. But where did people come up with this "I'm bored entertain me" shit? Why would you say this? You've conveyed lower status, and that you don't know how to have fun, all in the one sentance. I can vaguly see it's use when you already have some sort of rapport going, but this is no way to make an initial impresssion.

Once you've got her attention, you don't need to try so hard to impress her. You just need to say normal comfort building stuff.

If you want to keep in touch while she's away, you just need to send a short message (yours sounded long, which is probably wierd) for example "hey just touching base - (insert statement about how you hope event is going well, and then maybe something about catching up when she gets back)"

well right now she probably sees that last message for what it is, AFC, but your beat bet is the same path you always needed to take. Act like it didn't happen and just be confident and looking forward to catching up but having your own life, ie just the normal way to be attractive.

I did as Conker suggested - sent a messgae which said: Hey, just touching base. Oh by the way just had a drink with (a theatre director who is pretty big to her - true) which I thought you'd appreciate! Hope you're good?

No reply. So I will call her when I get back home, if she picks up I'll go for the Day 2, if not I will kill it.

Bit of a shame - she was definitely in to me as a couple of people said she was that night, and she's pretty cool, an actress etc. But she'll see me around and I have no intention of chasing...

Sound good? Thoughts? Any suggestions or last chance saloon gambits appreciated.

Thanks guys