I met this girl at a party. I got her number and got her through the comfort stage.
After the weekend was over I text her just teasing her a little.
And the next time I hit her with the congratulations. I was just thinking of you congratulations which escalated into a convo about a massage with happy endings. As soon as she said "I like that" I stopped talking to her. The next day (yesterday) I text her saying "mi amore!" Bc we are both italian. But she never said anything back. I know she's into me so what do I take her lack of response as? Her being busy or playing hard to get? Do a wait to talk to her again or do I text her today and set up a date? Call her? Idk how to read this simple signal. Help

Btw I just posted the sexy convo leading up to this on the routines forum. It is a continued discussion that I started from the get go with this particular chica. I would post a link but I haven't reached my 5post yet :p Find it under: building attraction and comfort via text

check it and POST for the love of god this chick is Hott

When you stopped after the happy endings, you killed it. She responded favorably to the suggestion/idea, and you responded negatively to her response (your lack of a response is a negative response,) so she is either freezing you out or thinks youre to timid and not nearly as experienced as you led on.

So you have to recover, send her some other text, or even better a voice mail with proper tone/inflection/voice speed saying about how you saw something sexual (or heard a song like "I Like big butts") and you popped into my head, but you were a back up dancer.

Basically you were building up the sexual tension, got her clothes off, and then walked away to watch tv. Time to recover. Also, never bring it up, ever again. Don't be apologetic, saying how you're sorry you just bailed or something came up so you couldn't get back to her till later. It will just remind her of what happened and your lack of response, which will bring up negative feelings and multiply them due to repetition of the occurrence of those feelings.

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