In the past where I have done well with like a hb9 that i can see myself in a relationship with, i have thought to myself, why am i so afraid to try and get her to have sex with me? I will do everything right and build up attraction/comfort and get to the point where the next time i see her, having sex would be easy. Its just that when its with such a hot girl, for some reason i get scared, unlike say a 7 where I can close them with comfort. What is it about the attractive girls that makes me want to wait? also, by waiting, i end up losing the hot girls.... Recently, i did the same thing and she ended up getting with another guy a couple weeks later because i waited too long and missed my opportunity. Any one else have this problem and know of a way to fix it? I think its just nervousness that I cant figure out.

something i FORGOT to add, which is important. These are girls that are hot with great PERSONALITIES, if its just a hot girl i want to hook up with, it all goes good.