Ok so today i was working and this buddy of mine there was telling me about his girl situation and he says he is taking this girl to the zoo this weekend. The zoo? Me and the other guys there were a lil surprised. I have never been big on seeing movies. SO here was my basic feedback on typical dates in high school.

First of all i don't think it is smart to always pay for a girl, especially on a first date.
If this girl is a stranger then why would you pay for her. Girls respect guys that don't pay. So i told my buddy he should go on an inexpensive date maybe not paying anything at all. Second of all, i think all dates should be spontaneous at first. For example last week my friends little brother (who is 12) needed a ride to guitar lessons. So i called this cutie i recently met and was like "hey i need to take josh to guitar and i don't want to wait for him alone... care to tag along?" SO i worked some game for like an hour and then dropped her back off. She loved every minute of it. I think when you plan a date in high school you put pressure on yourself and you worry about how it will go. If your spontaneous it shows that you are unpredictable which is very attractive. SO spending money and planning dates are a no no in my books. SO next this buddy at work suggested he should take her to a party that night. This once again is a bad idea. Would you bring sand to a beach? No. I go to parties to have fun drink with my friends have a good time. AND then you get to be social with everyone there and my goal is either to get with a girl there or leave with a number or something. If you bring a girl to a party, which i once made the mistake of doing, she was pretty much following me around as i mingled with people. It was gay. So if anything tell the girl that you will see her at the party. The you arrive late and she will be waiting so excited for you to your arrival. And she damn well should be right? cause your the fucking man!! so anyways going to party's, spending money, and planning dates aren't wise in my opinion. SO how does one go on a date in high school. This is an inexpensive and spontaneous alternative to taking a girl to the zoo. When he picks the girl up say "hey the zoo is close so i just rented us "planet earth"." She will probably think your funny for doing this and you can just watch it at your place, and make sure your parents don't bother you. Pretty inexpensive and simple hey? oh and if you aren't comfortable NOT paying for her... you should just buy coupons and when you ask her just be like hey i really want to see this movie tonight do you want to tag along? and just use the coupons like no big deal. You come across as spontaneous and using coupons is all good. Like a buddy laughed cause he's like "the girl will think your cheep" but no she won't because its way more ballin to not care what she thinks.. Because us PUAS don't need to impress anybody by paying. Spending money is AFC :p especially since most people in high school don't have lots of money to spend.


THe buddy at work was glad i told him all this so hopefully it will be good guidelines for some of you. Please leave some feedback, or any opinions.

You know, I may create a dating structure around what you have just said in this post but this is what I like the most. I've always thought how should we go around dating in high school etc and in my mind you have just nailed it, good work man. Taking a girl out for the first time should be inexpensive because we don't want her to feel we are draining all of her resources to go out with others. If we did, and we did drain most of her financing then it would create more chances of her avoiding us.
Golden, we should be spontaneous, I also agree that by being spontaneous makes us more attractive by being spontaneous she wouldn't have that long gradual build up of tension prior to a date.

Great advice man, hope your mates date went well

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