Hi,

I number & FB closed a girl in my "local" bar the other night. We've since had quite a bit of MSN, FB & text banter, and all seemed to be well! However, despite arranging to meet for coffee tomorrow afternoon in town, she mentioned to me last night that she "has a crush on someone else, so she won't try to seduce me....."

I get the feeling it's meant to be light-hearted & jokey, BUT I also get the general impression (dunno why really) that her interest could be waning, and that she might even "flake" tomorrow.

Has anyone got any thoughts on getting her mind away from this "crush" guy, and also just generally re-building comfort, attraction? Quite vague I know, but I could just do with some pointers.

P.S. She's French, so therefore almost certainly a psycho!! Haha!

I agree with you about the french part!

To me I text message girls like that telling them about my other love intrest to reduce the tension. And to make it more light hearted. I would still fuck them if it felt right. You are in a better position than if she had not said anything like that. I would be super suprised if she flaked on you. She seems really into meeting up with you. She is trying to make the SPAM nice between you and take the sweet off your back so you don't feel like you have to impress her and shit.

I'm going a little far here, but if I where you I would text her back and be like" PHEW!. I was hoping it wasn't going to be awkward". Now at least you guys can just say whatever you want without worrying if she likes you or not....

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