i met this girl almost a year ago, and things got going well from the beginning. before i even know any of the vocab of PUA, i was negging her and using the cat-string theory. i didn't know at that time that she had a boyfriend. needless to say, she found me on myspace and added me. we started talking. we had alot of insiders, and i kept negging her and playing games with her. at this point things were great.

now, things have heated up even more lately, and shes moving out to irvine soon and she asked me to come visit her.

also take this convo into consideration:

her: would you be my friend if i diddnt have a boyfriend?
me: no, you not having a boyfriend would completely kill the excitement of this relationship....jk, y not?
her: well most guys feel that its easier to be friends with a girl who has a bf because they're more comfortable and dont feel like they need to make a move.
me: well, have i made you uncomfortable?
her: no

(few minutes later)
her: would u make a move on me if we were alone?
me: why would you want me to? well, im sure depending on the mood and environment, and if u really wanted it, it wouldnt hurt.
her: well, if u ever do, dont ask me if its ok, just go for it.


see, things are good, i already #-closed a while back, and things are great. we tease alot. how do you guys suggest i finally k-close and phase-shift to a f-close with her?

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she just told you to go for it when she said not to tell her if you plan on making a move.

My opinion is just focus on a kiss-close and leave her wanting more. if it escalates then that's good too but don't force the F-close or you'll push her away

ya thats what im thinking. but any other routines to run to build up to it?

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You: On a scale of 1-10 how good of a kisser are you?
Her: (any number)
You: prove it/let's find out.

I think you can take it from there...

tahts a good one. thanks.

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in this case i'd suggest something else. she mentioned that she doesn't want to know about it beforehand if you do make a move.

I'm in the same situation myself right now and I'm using the massage method into transition with whatever seems to fit at the time.. good luck

massage method is the one where you ask them to massage you because of whatever reason you have, then neg them and u get on it and massage her then go for the cheek kiss when you can tell her that she's getting into it, and see if she responds with a 3 second rule.

am i right here.

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