I k-closed a girl in a club last night, took it slow and there was lots of talking, dancing, and they came with us to another club after the first place...

Anyway, with tomorrow being Valentines day I thought it would be a good opportunity to organise a day 2. I sent her just a small talk text following up on one of our conversation topics from last night, planning to ask her out for coffee on v day as a follow-up to her response, but no response yet...

I'll call next, but is it worth waiting a few days first, or just calling and if no reply then leave it for a while. The reason I feel like there's a slight rush is because with valentines coming up, it seems like a good opportunity to move things forward since lots of girls hate being alone on valentines.

What do you think?

i would personally suggest that it depends alot on your own views on valentines day. personally i think organise something for a couple of days after valentines day. youve only seen her once and valentines day is so much a couples day that it might come off as creepy to go for a day 2 ON v. day. so yeah cool go for a day 2 but dont worry about the coincidental date of february 14th.

yeah I don't really care about valentines day that much, but thought it could be an opportunity to meet for coffee and be a bit cocky like (don't go buying me any flowers), and a friend of mine was saying valentines day is like a free f-pass lol...

still would like to pursue a day 2 as i really feel we hit it off well, but starting to over-analyse whether my text message was too soon, and too comfortable...

it was along the lines of "hey! how'd you pull up after last night? lol looked up xxx (her friend who went to my high school that i couldn't remember on the night) on facebook, definitely recognise him from school, small world..."

the other thing is tomorrow is most convenient for me as a day 2, since i'm busy the next 2 weekends (going away and have an event to go to), and i work full-time and don't get much free time on weeknights. just don't want things to stagnate and be forgotten over 3 weeks.