i was in a party yesterday, and as soon as i saw her coming in, i knew ima get her. and i did. we make out, we isolate from everyone and go to some sofa and sometimes people pass by but not a big deal, we make out having fun.. everytime someone walks by she would look around.. and i tried, "lets go upstairs to see what there" (there were drunk people but my plan was different :b ) but she knew what i want and smiled and said "no".. apparently there is a guy she fucked before and its awkward if she sees him. anyways, then her friend comes and says "we have to leave in 15min", no imagine what im thinking to myself...:mad::mad: that girl defiantly wanted it but was shy and she has strict parents.

what to do? what am i doing wrong?

keep going for her. She likes you, but shes not ready to have sex with you yet. It means she has a little bit of respect for herself. Don't worry about other guys she's fucked. Just focus on her and you.

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Walk Hard

If she's onto you, keep working with it. The F close will come, keep comfort and don't look over keen with her.

This is one of those instances where going under the radar helps both of you get what you want. She obviously wants to fuck. But if you offer to take her upstairs, you are in essence telling her, "Let's go upstairs and fuck because I know you're easy and I don't care what other people think of you."

How about some creativity? Offer her an easier path to orgasm. You don't have to tell her, "Let's go upstairs", just because you WANT TO take her upstairs. There are so many different ways to run it. You could have told her that you want to check out a bar or another party. On the way out, you can even announce, "Hey, we're ditching this joint for the _______ bar." It's all just a fun charade. You'd both obviously suck face on the way back to your place.

If you're really desperate, you could have told her, "My buddy's got a killer guitar upstairs. Let's go and sing some tunes . .." - This is a SPECIFIC, non-slutty act whereas, "Let's go upstairs and erh . . . find something for us to do . . ." is a SPECIFIC slutty act.

You've got the "sexual" part of it down. . . now just add a little tact to allow her to act out her desires without guilt.