so i k closed this girl at my HS winter dance which was almost a month ago and since then we've met up about 4 or 5 times. each time we talk for a bit, and hook up but it hasnt gotten any farther.

everytime we meet up its mostly because i call her and start on msn with her and its sort of like an open relationship (havent talked about it). but when i try to go farther i get rejected and i was thinking about doing a freeze out as in i dont call her or initiate convo and let her do it next time.
or could freeze out during hooking up but id like some advice about this.
oh and i never try to seem to desperate when were together, although last time

i think i fucked up when at the end i was like
me-"ok your leaving, fine but were doing something next time"
her-"maybe, well see"
this is the reason i want to focus on freeze out cause that one comment means she believes she has the power relationship.
would like some advice, thanks

Definitely freeze-out. No contact. And if she reinitiates contact - you're busy the first few times.

thanks, tell you how it goes.

Has she ever done anything before? You don't need to freeze out. She's making out with you, so she's definitely into you and wants to do things with you. You just have to make her comfortable enough for that.

A freeze out will just show her you're only hanging out with her so you can get some booty.

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freeze out homie...thats all there is too it

ok, well my freeze out lasted 2 days. (last time i saw her)
she called me a little bit ago and we talked a bit, i said i was really tired which i am honestly.
she called me cause i have her jacket, and the freeze out was so short i was wondering how i should continue this.
thanks for any advice