have any of you had the situation where you closed a girl, and it affects your pickup of another girl who knows that girl? for example, you close a girl who is not your target's best/close friend, but is one of her friends and she doesnt let you seduce her because you are an "ex" of one of her girlfriends or because her girlfriend still has feelings for you. i cant help but think that if you close a girl you also close doors on potential opportunities in that girl's social circle. i think this is one of those things that i heard that you "dont go for a girls best friend" as she isnt going to choose you over her best friend and you will be the one that loses out.if this is so, if you value one girl more than the others in the group does this mean that you put all of that girl's girlfriends in the friend zone, and just focus on the her?

i wasn't sure where to post this as it has to do with both closing, and to an extent, opening so i just put it here.

Yeah had similiar problems, Where i would meet a girl and it turned out i knew her brother ><

But in my AFC days, i had a "gf" and ended up having one of her close friends be my "gf" later down the road. There friendship isnt as good as it was.

Yes I've had this quite a bit but it can work both ways.

Some girls tell eachother "he's a really good lay" and that can actually spark their friends to come on to you, happened to me once where a girl said "oh I guess *friends name* wasn't lying about you" when we were done, and I didnt even know they were friends

Me and my girlfriend got together because I kissed her best friend in front of her before we started dating, she stormed off and we had a fight because we didnt know how much we felt for eachother. Ended up meeting the next day and made out and it all went up from there. (their friendship is destroyed btw, they havent talked since.)

But yeah lately I've been running into the girls you talk about because I go to a small bar and I have sadly made a reputation for myself of having a different girl 2 nights a week.
This would be best, if you hit on/game multiple girls from the same circle, they will form a shield against you together, if you get what I mean.

oh okay, so basically try to prevent getting a reputation for being a womanizer?

yeah, it can't hurt though if they tell each other how good you are in bed ;D

You should take this opportunity to reflect on why you are doing this. Is this just a personal goal of yours to conquer women? Are you really looking to have somethign with someone? Are you just looking for a mutually casual lay?

In same night lay game you really want to be screening for who's down to fuck. Friend's of a girl who feels betrayed by you are not going to be the easiest targets on top of being desirable already. This should be taken into account.

Why does the first girl have feelings for you? Did you lead her on? If so, why?

If your intention is to conquer here, then you are trying to raise yourself by putting others down. You should be able to lift yourself up on your own. If you're looking for sex to fill your sexual needs and not your personal holes, these problems will not occur.

I'm gonna end this with a quote from the great Tucker Max.

"Fellatio will not fill the hole in your life."

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i'm looking to have something with someone. i also am thinking about the theory that girls tell other girls that "hes a good lay", and that it would increase my chances to close that one girl, kinda like a ladder where you lay her less attractive friend, she tells her more attractive friend, and her more attractive friend wants to lay you.

as for leading a girl on, i believe there are some pua games that are centered on leading girls on to lay them, regardless if it was a mutual casual lay or not.

The "he's a good lay" thing is more for if you are looking for just a hookup.

It's not good to marry a girl if you fucked all her friends. It would make for a really awkward wedding.

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