I just cant escalate. Last night i was with this hot girl who is really into me and I just didnt know how to sexualise so that i could kiss close. I know I should kino but I was thinking about it at the time and it would have felt forced.

What should i say and do so that I can move in for the kiss?

vin dicarlo's escalation ladder.

_________________
*Justice renders the WEAK his due*
My Journal
here-vp445642.html#445642

watch a movie together. if you 2 are on the sofa or bed tell her to sit by you so you can put your arm round her... after like 30 minutes of cuddling watching the film embrace her

then smell her and say "im trying so hard to resist kissing you" in a matter of fact kinda way

shel either say

"dont " or "*kiss kiss slobber tounge* etc.

_________________
Watch this guys

and i meant at home or hers... not the cinema

_________________
Watch this guys

Yeah but iw ant to kiss close on anight out clubbing or in a pub

you could either say the same thing... but id build the kino slowly if you are partying together. so maybe like touch her hand... hug her... hug her and feel her shoulder blades (dont touch the boobies!) etc. untill you build it up untill you can look into her eyes.

dude do this... it drives me wild

when you are talking to a girl and are properly connecting, as you talk and look into her eyes for a second glance at her lips whens she looking at you when your in deep conversation... and itl feel so odd to you... not in a bad way just odd.

but to her it means you want to kiss her. maybe lean in a little... if you can see the kiss is on go for it. if not just pretend nothing happend.

_________________
Watch this guys