I think I have the e-mail thing working pretty good. I had one ask if she should be worried to meet me, my response:

"Yes, you should absolutely be worried. If you worry about feeling
tingly all over. If you worry about your heart beating a little
faster. If you worry about having your hand held and having it feel
really good. "

Her response:
"MY,my,my....WOW!! The last paragraph left me very excited..interested..worried!! "

My transition to the phone and meet has been kinda sucky. We end up talking about normal boring shit. I want to keep the sexual tension up on the phone and then keep it going in person but I'm kinda clueless here.

Phone flirting: I usually base my flirts on stuff that was said before. Maybe I should ask "How did what I said make you feel" and go from there?

In person: Maybe bust on them a little and ask if she's still worried?

hey i have same issues
great to get phone close.. good with text or email or chat.

transition to the phone and meeting is hard.. especially because it seems like it is actually going too well on sexual tension on the txts...

i am looking for canned./scripted transiations.... wil let you know.. do same please. anyone?

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Dean "Prophet" Martin
Living in Europe, from California originally

im not one to use canned material to much, so sorry to say guys i dont have any, but i can give my 2cents if you want it


i have noticed the same thing as well and been improving on it for some time. when i meet a girl for the first time, after a myspace chat or something like that, to keep things going i come at her with a higher energy level. most girls that give off that they are flirty over the computer tend to by shy in person, so come at them just very happy, talkative, and start the convos off kinda calmly and not to sexual. you need to redo some comfort, cause you being in person will be different in her mind then the computer you. build up the comfort, and throwing in some things you talked about and asking her questions you may have asked will help the convos go smoothly. also, there is no kino over the internet or texting. so bringing that in will help things work itself out better too. most of the time meeting a girl for the first time to show her im not nervous or one of those weird guys, when i see her i give her a big warming hug, its kinda my idea of a good icebreaker. it shows you are comfortable and as the day goes on she will be too

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

ok.. maybe i am looking for some examples or stories?
I am keeping connection on txt and want to ask them out.. but find that they cool off or what i invite them to maybe is too 'much'..

Gregory

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Dean "Prophet" Martin
Living in Europe, from California originally

If you connect on text then give them your number and tell them to call. A lot of times they give you their number. Call them once or twice and connect there then setup a meet.

I've been doing that, that's easy. The sexual tension is falling off because I don't keep it going.

On the meet: It sounds good to make them feel safe first and then start touching a bit and flirting. It is kinda like you just met them and have to chat them up.

the thing that works for me best is slowly escalating the touching..
first-hugs
second-hand on small of back or cheecks
third- hands/arms
fourth-waist etc
fifth-well u decide from there

it all depends on the girl tho..sometimes u may have to go slower
but ya loop and thread the convo and start to head it in a more sexual manner

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Yesterday I got her on phone and when convo turned towards "normal" stuff I got it back towards the flirty stuff.

Today she initiated some text flirting, sweet.

Met her tonight, started kino right away, kiss closed.