Okay, so I over negged, tried using routines and fell flat on my face during a Day2. I told myself going into it I was going to try some new stuff, for the fun of learning...and it was painful, but i definitely learned a lot from it : )

It's sad, but I can read the girl's mind after our day2. She thinks I'm an arrogant and not very interested in her...because I negged her too much and didn't SOI. She tried to qualify herself and she did to a certain extent...

Now, I'm actually attracted to this HB, because it's going to be very difficult for me to get her...lame actions by me on Day2 : )

All that crap being said...I know I need to change my image with the girl from "Arrogant asshole that was disinterested" to " interested, fun and exciting".

Here's where I stand: Tried to call HB a day after the Day2...no answer. Then tried to text her that evening...no response. Waited a week or so and sent her a FB PM saying I was going out the other weekend and to text me if she was going to be out...no response.

The HB liked me...but I completely shut her down on the Day2, hence the reason for the no responses. I'm treading in uncharted waters...and dug myself a nice hole.

So, next step? Text seems like the best choice...facebook is overrated and I know she's not answering my phone call. I'm looking for a text that will create a response...once I get her talking again I can ditch the routines and build comfort. Like I said...I'm a tad lost on what to text her and to top it off my roommate said he would cover rent for Jan if I could get another date with HB8 : )

I always appreciate the insight from all the PUAs

The truth will set you free. Somebody said that for a reason...If you really like this girl, then just let her know.


Just let her know that you were nervous about meeting her, and that you weren't acting yourself. Make sure your honest, because if she stills rejects you, ITS OK, thats her fault not yours...

PEace

totally agree with samex.

it needs to be short and sweet. she read your text and got your message and chose not to reply, you need to make up for it in one message. it's tricky, and even a great play may not be enough to hook her back, but obviously, it's worth a shot.

maybe apologize first by calling yourself out on being arrogant and whatever, and then see if she's interested in another meeting.

something like: "i'm sorry, i was a dick the last time we hung out, let me make it up to you with a cup of coffee"