Basically my question is if you are having a conversation with a girl on the phone and you are the first to end the call. what is the best way to do so in a manner that will make her either look forward to talking to you again? or that will actually (preferably) get her to go out of her way to make contact, and create a more promising day 2 without the flakes?

Would it be wise to tell her to call and/or text you?

Would a simple "I'll talk to you later," or "I'll catch ya later" do the trick?

Or is there a little something thats more complex and promising that i dont know about?

My main goal here is to create a stronger phone game that will make me seem more dominant to her, and make her value my time and want to be a part of it.

Slammed96Stang

I normally go with the following lines after a conversation:

"Hey I need to get going, I'll talk to you later".

This makes it appear that you have other things going on in your life and that your world doesn't revolve around her. Keeps the attraction going.


If I am in a rush and she just called me I will say something like this:

"Hey can I call you later, I'm busy right now".

I normally avoid texting all together because that doesn't really show interest, unless of course in the event she texts me I will text back or if I want to tell her something without getting into a whole conversation about it.

One thing I do tend to recommend is to keep the communication frequency to 50/50, meaning that you contact her 50% of the time and her likewise.

Hope that helps.

Cheers,

J-Dub

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J-Dub in DC

Its better to be the predator than the prey.

You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

That is some good advice. Even saying I gotta go I'll speak to you later will leave it open. If she's really into you wait a couple days before calling back and maybe she'll call you but if you are unsure then I'd say call when you're ready. As to the texting thing.. Texting definitely yields results. It is easy to communicate and by using facial expressions lets you be C/F and sarcastic. It is kind of like online sarging. Read up on that if you have trouble texting there are lots of good examples. I posted 2 things in the general questions forum but it has an example of how I used online sarging to get her number and then followed up by doing it by texting her the same way.