Ok so there is this HB9 i work with and i've been trying to get weith her for a few months. We went on a coffee date once 2 weeks ago and she came out to the club for my b-day last week. We both ended up getting really drunk and having sex that night. I think the alcohol played a huge factor there because i had a lot of trouble getting anything from her beforehand in the last months, never even a kiss close.... she was concerned about the fact that we work together and asked me not to tell anyone about what happened. She seemed a little regretful but i think part of it is that she doesnt want to come across as a whore.


My question is how do i keep her interested because i'd like to get with her again when we'r sober.

Just keep doing what you have been doing. Keep the rapport up and go out together.

I do understand the whole work situation as word spreads like wildfire at the office when you hook up with someone. One think I can say is that any sex within the workplace will eventually create drama. So unless you two get into a relationship, someone will find out, its just a matter of time.

Do you want to be in a relationship with her and her with you? Or is this just a fling? If its the later, then try to be F.ck buddies, if the former, then call her out on it if you don't mind the answer either way.

At least that has been my experience.

Hope this helps.

J-Dub

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