Right well i met this hb 8 a couple of weeks ago at a boat party and everything was going really well k closed and got her number. Im new to the game but i think i did a few things as i managed to isolate her and throw in a few routines aswell as false time constraint. We have been in contact inbetween the couple of weeks and were sending some flirty texts and shes agread to be my partned in crime. However i got a subtle snub when i said we should go ice skating after she said she "loved it".

Now im goin to a gathering with like 15 odd people soo i cant run loads of routines as i dont know them. And i have been told from a neutral friend that shes not too keen to meet up again. This rejection makes me want to have her more and im wondering what i can do to ensure i can k close again and possibly arrange a proper date. All advice is helpful thanks!

I say try your luck with the next crowd. If those mutual friends are there, they might say something to the girl your interested in and you'll be able to prove through that that you are indeed worth hanging on to. The worst that can happen is you meet someone new and nothing happens with the other girl - which is what is going to happen if you don't do anything anyway.

Yea i can definitly see your logic but do you think it will be best to go talk to her briefly normally then cut my attention and see if she follows?

For sure. If she's there, acknowledge her but show her that she might have some competition. Pump your social value by chatting it up and having fun with others. If she still feels some attraction to you, I'd think that she'll approach you again. You can always try talking to her again yourself after spending some time with others and see how it feels.

Yea it sounds like the best way show her a little attention wait till she bites withdraw then repeat until theres lots of attraction