hi, i'm selaith. i wouldn't call myself a pick up artist but i've read most of the books.

so this is what happend/is happening. I had a girlfriend, it didn't work out and i've moved on. now the past weeks i've been casually dating with her again. everything is going quite well, she's giving me IOI's, she even told me she wanted to have sex with me(but a few seconds later she told me it was just an uprising). now i think the atraction is there, the comfort is there but i also think she mentally blocks me out. she can't just 'go with the flow" and let it all happen.

now my question to you, more experienced in dating woman, is: how the heck do i destroy this mental shield of her?

this is also my sticking point. The easy way would be to avoid going for girls like this, since it'd save you lots of time and trouble. But since I can't take my own advice, I wouldn't expect you to take it either. Anyone else got suggestions?