I need some advice, from those guys that have been in a similar situation. Basically me an dmy buddy picked up these two girls we started talking totally had them all over us. We had several drinks (151 Bacardi) so I was def. feeling the buzz but my game played out good. I start making out with this girl I just met a couple hours ago and get her undressed. I have her pants off and we're about to fuck, but I can't get hard! Mind you this doesn't happen, it has before. I think it's mostly when I drink hard alchohol this problem resides. If anyone has and got over it some how I'd love the info. But that's beyond my current goal, I really want to see this chick again. She was a lot of fun and I don't want to miss the oppurtunity to get with her. My buddy has the girl she was with (who he hooked up and succefully had sex with). They both left happy, although the girl teased me about nto getting hard, she left me with a kiss and said get at me anytime. I didn't ask for her number as I was trying to show my self woth in not being needy and just playing the game. So basically, what should I do to get that second chance.

What do you mean? She obviously wants to see you again. It's a bigger deal in your head than it is in hers. Just get over it. The bigger obstacle at this point is just finding her number and sending her a text (since you didn't get it when you had the chance). Don't bring the incident up again (and dont make excuses for it), just get her a number and send her a text inviting her to a party or what not. Run your game on her again, avoid the hard alcohol, and she'll fall for you again.

Saw her again at a party, she ended up coming with some dude. It was ok though cause I was running my game on some other chicks there. Ended up talking to her and instantly talking about going back to my house. Figured Id talk to her later, but then I noticed she had to bring her friend home. I went to talk to her and she said shed be back... totally flaked out.

I had the a similar thing happen with me on saturday. I was having a totally awesome night. One of those nights where every chick you meet is totally into you and giving you the i wanna fuck you look.

I met up with a 9/10 which is really hard to find in my town and I never seen her out before. Anyways, I hung out with her most of the night. She bought me like 5 drinks and I didnt buy her a single one. Danced with her most of the night. She was just totally into me and I was totally reeling her in with my game.

She asked me to come home with her so I did. We made out then she passed out. We woke up a few houts later and we made out some more for a whille and I with some heavy foreplay she wanted to F*ck. Everything was fine at first then I totally lost it. She seemed kind of upset. I got her to give me a ride home. Asked for her number and she gave me her business card cuz my phone was dead/

Anyways, I wanna set up a day 2 with this girl but I feel like I really fucked it up. Tried sending a text but no response, not even sure if its a business number or her cell phone.

From this sutation I learn its totally best not to give a fuck. I didn't even ask for the girls number, so her at a party that she came with some dude, and she still wanted to fuck me! Then again i ate her out for an hour almost lol. Can't show your embarssed at all or she'll totally feel the vibe. If she wanted to fuck, just go straight to the shit and tell her something like "I'm going to busy this weekend, I might have time on (such a day eg. saturday) night, what are you doing" Night is a key component cause it indicates intamcy, if she responds yes Im doing nothing and you get over great, should be easy to run your game from there. If she says shes busy, then you can still play it off like you didnt ask her to hang, because technically you didnt.