The part about your Ex was stupid as hell. You should only include "my ex" or "my friend shelly" when you are trying to DHV in a story. Otherwise, it is super try hard and she will be annoyed that you are impress her that you had an ex.
Quote:
Me: Right now, I am at work. Later school. Are we still on meeting tomorrow evening at 5pm? There are some cool lounges in the area.
This. When it comes to meetings, you never invite or try to make one on a low level of excitement or attraction. You didn't say anything fun or flirty, you didn't build anything up. If she's not clearly attracted to you already (which she definately isn't) she will not respond to something like that positively, if at all.
Learn and move on.