Following up with my field report, i asked the female i kiss closed out last night, she said she couldn't to which I wasn't really bothered by so I set up a meeting on tuesday and whatnot she said "maybe, i'll let ya know" to which I replied "great I'll see you then" and teased her about something.

I don't plan on contacting her at least until tuesday evening when we're sposed to meet up, question is, should I even contact at all the day of? I'm thinking no possibly. If it works it works, if it doesn't I at least wouldn't mind making a friend out of it .

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My time is important to me so I would contact the day of to make sure things are still on. Life happens and could interfere with plans. I don't have time to be driving to or sitting in a place waiting for someone who isn't coming. Although, it is completely up to you, there really isn't a right answer but just your preference.

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I understand your thoughts on this and do agree with you. I could be doing something else with my time as well. I suppose I could call a couple hours before then, I would hope to get a call back and not a text back but I don't want to say "call me back" if she doesn't answer. I would most likely leave a message saying something like: I'm calling to make sure we are on for today if not, I'll see you another time and have a fantastic day" Not in cheery tone either more like a "I don't care whether you show up or not, either way I have something else to do." tone.

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