Ok so ive been sarging this one chick for about 2 days now, ive known her for about a week but today I decided to get things moving along. We went back to her room to "watch a cool video" and I started off with a pillow fight to get some kino going and it worked perfect. I was throwing her on the bed and tackling her. After that she mentioned her back was sore from earlier or something so I said she was in luck and I was an excellent back massager. So after the massage her friend called her and she said she had to hop in the shower so we parted ways and she told me to call her later.

Did I screw up by giving her a bm? Or by not at least kissing her? We are going out partying tonight do you think im LJBF's or is there hope? Any suggestion would be key we are both in college if that makes a difference.

obviously not....i probably would have done the same thing...she told you to call her later so do that and see where it goes

You're not dead yet. You just gotta stop worrying every little detail. You'll psyche yourself out.

Lets see, she brings you to her room, and she essentially straight up asks for a massage. This girl wants you! stick your tongue in her mouth tonite! That's not a suggestion, its an order! From the moment you see her tonite act as if she is already your's. If she tries to play you off and ignore you around her friends, isolate her and work her over.

When its a sure thing like this you are passed the point of worrying about game, just finish her off.

next time:

During the massage you should have slowly gotten closer and closer to her with your lips, and after a sufficient amount of teasing, kissed the back of her neck. If in the processes she says "what are you doing" you tell her "shhh, whose the expert here?"

Also don't let her leave so abruptly next time.

You: you're not leaving like that, i am not done with you.
HB: what else do you want?

move her over to the bed and press your body against hers until she has no choice but to fall back on the bed. grab her wrists to pin her down, and k-close.

These are my thoughts

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Im meeting up with her in a few minutes, thanks for the advice im going in as if shes already mine. Ill post an update sometime tomorrow.

Well you're not in too bad of shape. But the back massage was a good opportunity to make your move. Shoot even while play wrestling you could have gave her some playful kisses. Pin her down kiss, lick, nibble on her neck/lips say its a finishing move. Then you flip her over and slap her on the butt and run away she'll chase you. Then repeat the physical lip locking then her push off to cause more tension as so on. You'll see her tonight get a rematch.

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Haha I like it especially the part about slapping her on the butt an running away breaking tension and causing more tension is good.

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So u think you can handle this?

When she comes back reminder her that she owes you for the back massage and you highly doubt she has the ability to pay. (neg)

hb: well how do you know that? how much

you: (start massaging again) "Well I usually start with a kiss here..." (plant one on the shoulder) "then move across the back..." (planting them from one to the other shoulder) "and then move to here..." (back of the neck and right behind the ear lobes). "Usually the client will turn around..." (spin her to face you) "and I start at the forehead, the tip of the nose, the chin and then the lips...." (all the while doing it as you mention it - use some NLP also - low deep voice, very smooth and breath heavy in between the words esp as you kiss the earlobes - women pick up on that much more than men)

hb: wow

you: "yep - expensive isn't it?" (stop all contact go about whatever for a few seconds push pull remember? and then) "now I don't mean to be rude - but you still owe me for services rendered or we could run a tab but a tip is added to all open tabs....."


Let it flow from there.

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