Hello PUA's and gentlemen,

I might get chastised for the opener and the eventual number close, but i got it and now she's keen (so far), here goes:

Before the England-Croatia game on the 9th me and my friend leave his place to grab some food before KO. Walking down the staircase of the apartment block in Birmingham there is this HB9, brunette, size 6 sitting on the bottom step. As i walk down she turns around and we say hi to each other. I then turn to her at the bottom and ad lib how taking the stairs is better than the lift and that my friend is taking the lift even though its inferior to the stairs in convenience and comfort, and that now i have to wait for him. She agrees and tells me how she likes to keep fit and that she always takes the stairs, anywhere (I dont know why she said that but im sure it was dropping a hint of fitness). The lift dings and my friend walks out, I briefly haze him for taking the lift when we are in a rush then introduce ourselves to her. She then explains how she is waiting for her driving instructor to pick her up. We chat for a few more minutes, then she realises the instructor had been waiting for her for ages. So, she dashes and tells us she lives in a flat on the floor above and that we should drop by sometime if we needed anything. Me and my friend both walk off with our fists in our mouths exclaiming at this girls figure and accent. He expresses genuine interest and that he can go round and game anytime he likes, but he has a long term GF so screw him. All is fair in love and war.

Anyway, I let myself miss the #close. But the familiarity was there and i didn't want that opportunity to completely close on me. So exactly an hour later (for the end of her lesson) i walk down and out the block and back up. Nothing I then repeated this the next hour. Missed her again. By now its 10.30, too late to call round and my friend is making fun of my persistence. (TBH it was pretty sad, but i dont live near him and i only go round once a fortnight at most and couldnt possibly go round again for about a week, so it had to happen that night. Excuses, i know) Anyway, in further desperation i write her a note (without my friend knowing, obviously) saying pretty much exactly this (though worded better in the heat of the moment):

Hi Annalucia, This is Henley (the guy in green) who you met earlier with his friend. I dont live here so i cant casually come round and borrow a cup of sugar, so heres my number (below). I just dont think its fair that my post code should have an influence on who I can see again.
speak soon xx 0774878****

I slide this under her door and catch the train back to my place.

The next day goes by and i dont hear a thing, i start to think the note was a desperate school-boy thing that is only attempted by girls anyway, and begin to die a little. Anyway, at about 7 she texts! apologising for the late reply and says that we should go for a coffee sometime.

So, after some text game she tells me that she is a 25yrold ballet dancer at the Birmingham Royal Ballet, she's Spanish by ethnicity but has lived in france all her life. This explains 1. the tightest body ever .2. the sexiest accent ever .3. the darkest, sexiest eyes ever. So im sold. We have now arranged to meet up sometime next week where im employing her as my interior designer for my new place. It should be fun, its a day 2 ive ran with girls before that gets them trying to impress you with their taste and also provides a day 3 back at mine (cheeky).

I have a few concerns though. She has asked me what i do for a living and how old i am. basically im 20 about to start the 3rd year of study at the University of Birmingham, doing a BA in Political Economics. Being a ballet dancer 5 years my senior, i feel that a penniless student living in a house of 4 blokes is not going to impress.

So, i put this to the PUA's amongst you. Should i worry about this being a glass ceiling on any DHV's i play? I know i could say the Style thing of saying im working to be the next chancellor of the exchequer or something like that, but it sounds like a front. also, and i know this is the wrong section, but, any tips on patterns or game i can use on her when we meet next week.

Thanks for reading, i look forward to any input and feedback.

Henley

Hey Henley. I would like to advise you to make your post much and much shorter. Not a lot of people have the time to read long posts. If you just want to tell the whole story you should post it in the Fieldreport section.

So, for this time you're lucky and i red you're whole post. For your day 2 routines... you could add some games, or DHV routines. I used it a lot in the past, but I realised that as soon as I was running out of things I started to feel uncomfortable, so I prefer to have natural conversation. Story telling is good, making it a DHV story is even better (talk about you're interesting life, a women you have been with or other amazing things that happend to you) but don't brag, she will realise it. If you still want to use some canned DHV routines check out this topic: games-vt50066.html?highlight=

ABout the age. I'm not sure if you have already revealed your age, if not you can play around with it by telling her she is too old for you. I don't think it's a big deal since there has been multiple women atracted to me who were between 27 and 30 (I'm 21).

Good luck with it buddy. let me know how it went

Bah - I've found that people tend not to reply unless you make a passionate, very informative post! When I made short ones, no one ever replied! But longer than a screen is too long. I'd say his post is only slightly over the ideal length.

Anyway - dude, your situation is gold. It's like something straight out of a movie, even if things go wrong, you'll be able to see the funny side of it and it will go right in the end anyway. For her, that note was one of those serindypitous "Hugh Grant" moments, and she wants to go along for the ride.

If I were you I would play up your situation. You're 20, a penniless student, and you don't give a fuck, you love your life. She's a successful, more mature ballet dancer. That's what makes this so awesome, no one would expect it. You two know you're into each other. You're the carefree student that swept her off her feet in the stairwell. Just keep being the guy that attracted her in the first place.

thanks for the feedback guys, im going to meet up with her after rehearsals later this afternoon. will post-up when im done.

wish me luck,

Henley