so i meet this girl while im working security at a local night club (30 mins from where i live) we were sort of set up by this girl i use to hook up with, she basicly said this is (her name) and shes a really nice girl im going to msg u her number and take her on a date.
the next day i txt the girl, saying blah blah blah, she ends up saying we should go for tea or hang out. she works 3 jobs and doesnt get much time but we found some the day b4 my birthday. we go for dinner, everything good, had fun, shared personal stories, about other pplz we have dated and childhood experiances. after dinner (i payed, dnt know if it matters or not? i thought i should because she drove 30mins to my town)

we go far a drive in her car, park some place, jst chat and chat. drove me home, sat in the car jst kept talking sharing experiances all positive,(i had already not planned to kiss this girl because i know if i hang with her more and we make a bit of a connection the kiss would mean more.

so she msges the nxt day wishing me happy bday blah blah, then not much after, i talk to the girl who set us up and she said the girl thinks im a bit young but shes not sure. im 20 shes nearlly 22, not a biggie because she said she was with a guy 10 yrs older and it didnt worry her.

so i txt her and ask her about me being to young, she explains that shes sorry the friend said that and she wasnt sure.

she didnt text much after, when b4 the date she txted alot.
she said we'll hang out when she finds time and watch a tv series we both like. soo all good.

the reason why i think shes on about me being to young is while on the date her friends where msging her and calling her a cougar (woman who likes younger men) and i think she cares alot about her friends opinions and now thats on her mind.

i need sum ideas of how to relax her of that and make it a non-issue???

Sorry about the long story! but i think it needed to all be said.
Any ideas please!

come on... no advice? poor effort guys

You asked for an opinion this is my opinion...If the girl likes you enough It doesn't matter what her friends think of you,get it? she's texting her friends wile out with you and there accusing her of being a cougar,her friends are making fun of her and teasing her, It's obvously turning out to be a whole joke to someone.

Some women go on dates to bring there self esteem back up and getting hooked up from someone you already dated, now that's a little strange, don't you think? Does the girl who hooked you up, go to the nightclub you bonce at? if she does then she might be trying to get you in her pocket. And why would a girl travel 30 minutes to see you? there must be something behind that, she hardly nos you.I think the girl that hooked you up, sold you off to this girl.And plays the game well.
Get Online and see if a girl will travel 30 minutes to see you that harldy nos you.Don't actually do that as It want happen, not for free anyway.

You went for dinner...That spells I want there to be something more to this then just sex.(If you have your game together then you might be able to pull it of) If I was the girl I would be thinking."hmm....1 red flag but can he make up for it" Then your sitting in her car talking and you don't kiss her, another reg flag. Do you think you could of kissed her? if you did then you should have. Are you trying to become friends with this 22 year old girl, which by the way is only 2 years older then you. If she dosn't believe in sex before marriage then a 2 year age gap really isn't going to matter.It's an Excuse for another reason.Even If her friends are making fun of her about it.

It sounds to me that your now chasing her , so she's making the rules, hench and I quote "she said we'll hang out when she finds time and watch a tv series we both like. soo all good " I think you should stop texting her and delete her number, go out and get other girls numbers .You can get a number from a 2-5 minute conversation.If you no what your doing..Example...Day game , Direct Approach . qualifier If she qualifys to you , Number close her. You have a number .Text her , Read up on texting! Get good at texting. Ring them, talk to them for 5 minutes, 10 minutes ETc...Do you feel confident yet! go on day 2s, hang out. Learn , Learn , Learn Get the girl.

As a rule if the girl isn't sure when she can hang,Move on.

Thanks for posting.