Hey guys,

Simple question here, before I close this HB 7.5. If I'm dealing with LMR, what should I do? Should I reinforce the comfort or going all over the attraction phase?? Or should I only qualify and build comfort again??

Advices, share it here!

Thanks

Best pal,
Steven

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Steven,

With last minute resistence you can pretty much plow through it most of the time. As you are kissing her taking her clothes off etc. She is likely to throw out "We shouldn't be doing this." or "I'm not sure if I should be doing this..." Just keep kissing, taking clothes off, etc. And then agree with her, "Yeah we probably shouldn't." Just like it's a tease but keep going!!!!

If you really hit a brick wall then STOP. Stop all phyiscal contact, break the tension completely, and go to do something else. Then later TRY AGAIN. You can go back into comfort building if you want. But remember the PUSH-PULL is what gets it going. So stop what you're doing (pull) then later start up the kino escalation and don't stop until she says STOP. (push).

Jon

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what if it's pretty late at night and you gota work the next day (she knows this), she gives you some line about how she wouldnt respect herself if she did this blah blah, when you freeze her out how do you stop from one of you falling asleep? Get up and get a glass of water and take 5min or so?