I met this girl 3 weeks ago. And I think I became her best friend, she starting talking to me a lot. I think she either likes me or just instantly thought , i seriously don't no. So I have went to the mall with her, and talk to her everyday. Im leaving for school next week and we are chilling in 1 or 2 days. So when she is over I cant imagine how i will make a move. Conversation wont be sexual or stimulating. Should i just go for it, and tell her what i want. She i ask?
what steps or things should i do before i attempt?
HELP?!

1 word. ONEITIS!

but listen, i can help.

you gotta get the kino going! when she gets there a hug is a great start. then guide her through your house by holding her hand. if your feeling right, there's two ways that seem ideal to get this kiss.

option 1: turn on some music and see if you can get a slow dance out of her. if you can lean in, whisper in her ear "have you ever had a suave kiss?" then lean her back (almost like its still part of the dance), look her in the eye and go in.

option 2: play the 5 lies game with her. GAME EXPLAINED BELOW. then when she losses, ask her if shes such a liar how can she trust ppl.
her - blah blah i trust ppl.
u "oh ya, prove it"
her -"how?"
you - " trust test" explained below as well.

5 -lies game here 5-lies-game-by-style-vt6090.html

trust test. tell her shes about to take the trust test. hold your hands out for her to take them, palms up. when she does, squeeze her hands quickly. if she squeezes back good. if she doesnt, give her a light smack the hand and say cmon sweetie were testing your trust here!

part 2. here we go! now just hold ur hands flat out, palms up again. have her put her hands on top of yours. lower and raise them slowly and make sure u are slowing your speech and looking her in the eyes while doing this. now, turn your hands to the outside so they are now upright and she should follow. tap finger tips slowly once or twice then interlock fingers, if she interlocks back, your in. pull her closer, close those eyes and go for that kiss.

SORRY ITS SOO LONG

-dw3llz

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-dw3llz

man you have to get something started b4 just going for it..that would make it awkward for both of u trust me

i would say u need to start someting physical, touching, kino, basic stuff. positive feedback means it can be a go as long as u are smooth with it, fluent. dont be drastic it wont kill u if it istn perfect. do wut u feel coming dont think u MUST kiss her or anything of that nature.

mR.e

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dont even think just do it!

mr.e, i gotta disagree. he says hes best friends with her right now, and if he doesnt make a move, he'll end up in the friend zone for quite some time. i say go for it jprich

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-dw3llz