I got this girl last night, I already knew her so there was no opening stuff but I did used some routines after (5 lies etc) and with all the converstation and kino escalation I went for a nice KC and everything worked just great!

After that she drove me home since I had no car (lol), and on the way she dropped her friend home as well (before me).

Now I think I could have asked her to come up to my place but I wasn't sure how, and I thought it would be better to do this on day2, since we re going to be on the same place for holidays next week.

Was it right or wrong? How should I do it without triggering slut effect etc? Did I do the right thing?

Only thing I really don't want to happen is her thinking I want something serious etc..


Thanks,
The Dj

I always feel that when I review a night, pitch, hard decision if I have regret about an action such as "should I have pressed harder for the deal/girl" I know I made the wrong decision at the time.

David D, Strauss etc invited girls to come in through disarming them by saying things such as "hey you know I was talking about that signed CD I got from a Muse tour when I sneaked into the VIP section, do you want to come inside and see it".

Through building a conversation earlier in the interaction, and then building on it towards the bedroom is key. But ensure you time frame it, I usually say "you can only stay for about 10mins as I have some work to do tonight or I have meeting tomorrow and do not want to be tired"-most girls are not going to come in and then want to get kicked out.
You must inform girls what you want from the interaction, I usually do this early in the night as most girls ask IOI's such as:

Girl:"do you have a girlfriend or what is your type of girl?"
Me: "can't hold her alcohol, lower body fat then an Ethiopian and looking for fun and nothing more."

I have projected that if something happens at the end of the night or a week from now I am not looking for a relationship, this interaction will not progress into one.

If I decide that she is more then just good looking, and brings more to the table then most girls I have been with I have the option to say "I know I did not want anything serious, however through being with you I might want something a bit closer or more".

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Wow, thats quite cool I 'm so using it next time!! Thanx!

About the relationship thing, maybe its kind of wierd saying something like that, especially before anything happens..
Or if you say it before maybe you re going to lose the girl or if you say it after she s going to be like "Err.. why did you think I want something serious? duhh"