So I met this really cool girl while out through some friends, played some decent enough game and ended back at hers, K-closed. Also turned out she had a boyfriend after we first kissed, but played it well enough to continue, but not F-close. That was a week ago.

Anyway, the morning after she went on holiday, and is back in a few days. I got her number and texted her after I left her in the morning, but just to say i left something at hers, she replied and was still flirty with me. However, I haven't contacted her since she left (though text or facebook, which I am yet to add her on) and she hasn't made a move to contact me again, through text or facebook.

I'm definitely interested in seeing her again for a day two or even a (dare I say) relationship. (Same interests, good conversation, good looking, rational decision etc). And could do with some advice on how to proceed. Contacting her when shes on holiday seems a little AFC, especially seeing as shes probably having a good time.

Will it have adversely effected me that I didn't f-close? I tried all the basics like freezing out and pre empting it, which got me as far as I did, past the initial boyfriend barrier, but the LMR was way to strong, hoping it was just because she didn't want it to get out that she laid a guy she just met that night behind her boyfriend. i got her topless and things got pretty heated, she just wouldn't let her jeans come off. She wasn't drunk, and my observation/intuition says she has genuine interest and shouldn't be experiencing buyers remorse.

So yeah, basically, did failing to f-close work against me? and have I done the right thing by not contacting her on holiday? and how do I proceed to cultivate interest/more dates.