Okay, so long story short, I've gotten to know this girl and this is where we are at now.

2 months ago, she was saying how she wanted to come over my house for some drinks this summer, (AKA now). So in school we continued sort of flirting until then, and talking more and more. Now last week, before I asked her about coming over at all, she asked me if she wanted to meet at the park. I said sure but she bailed half an hour later because her "strict" parents wouldn't let her go. She asked to postpone to the next day, but I had work so said to her that she should just come over the next week.

So the one day that week I had work she texted me and said, "aww u had work I could have come over today. damn." or somthing like that. I asked about the other days that week but she said none of them would work. She probably wouldnt be able to hang out until after her one month vacation, which is where I'm at now.

Other important things of note are that she still hangs out with a long time guy friend, alone sometimes, and also she mentioned once that when she wanted to hang out with me it would be more fun with one of my other friends there too, who i know she talks to sometimes. However, she said she wants me alone to teach her how to bike and swim, so I'm sort of confused. (and was surpised she couldnt do any of these things)

I know if I could have soem time alone with her I could push things and probably kiss but now she is away for a month. I can text her but how should I go about this to not seem needy. Also, what do you think of these other guys. does it mean anytihng? THey are both weak and indecisive afcs btw, so I dont really no why she would be into them, but she continues talking to them and stuff.