yesterday I met up with a HB8.5, I n-closed with on last thursday and couldnt k-close her

I wonder if I'm being too much of a nice guy or what???

I took her out to have a drink at BJs. I purposely took her out around 10:30pm so she can wait for me and hoping to build some social value by telling her I was busy with some important work stuff and I cant leave early. Also, I had her thinking about me, because she was texting me throughout the day about us hanging out. So with that being said I thought it was going to be cake. Even when I picked her up it was all good and we sat in the bar area( I think this one of my first mistakes) but we sat close enough where our knees were touching so I though it was OK. Anyways, we fluffed around a bit and took an IOI(playing with her hair)so I decided to neg her a little (something on her cheek move) then tried to escalate with some kino by putting my hand on her knee, but she never dropped her hands down so I took them back to punish her. So Was lookin for some more IOI's but never really got anymore besides playing with her hair and occational obvious checking out my tattoos on my arms. I noticed she like to crunch ice so I decided to neg/escalate by telling what crunching ice meant about somebody(sexual frustration) and I opened her up bit more but maybe the wrong way because she begin to tell me that she hasnt gotten any in while because her Ex didnt want to give her any (at this point I started to smile and shake my head, "like was this dude gay or something, because she has a great ass) and then she let me know that she recently broke up with the dude 3 weeks ago(from a 3 year relationship). At this point I felt like "great and i guess I'm the rebound guy"...fuck it I started to listen to her tell her story but I cut her off because she started to lead the conversation and then unfortunetly the place was closing (12:30am), we had to leave and she began to bring up things she had to do at work in the morning so dont know why but I took this as a IOD and I took her home. When I dropped her off, I hugged her and she tightened back so I said "by" and "that when I get back we got hang out again" <---I think this was my main mistake) (i'm going out of town for the long weekend) then as we were close I tried to kiss her and all i got was the cheek and a "it was great seeing you, I cant wait until we hang out next time"

I know next meeting I will close her but I wanted to K-close her then & there...I guess to feed my ego...also I hope she doesnt give me the LJBF, because that ass is lovely.

Any suggestions on doing better next time ?...sorry for the length.