I have recently wheeled two HB9-10 pretty successfully. One I see regularily and one day she came up to me and started flirting with me and I was tld she was interested. I reciprocated and played it pretty well. The other was at my buddies house and she was an old school friend who he had been trying to wheel for a while. She left at the same time as me and we hit it off extremely well on my way home. Now im a huge believe in loyalty and "bros before hoes" so I didnt try anything though she seemed to really want me to.

Now I have always been known to rush things and take things fast and it has really served as benificial to hook up with really good looking ladies but I feel it has extremely hindered my relationship opertunity and I really want to have a long term thing (possibly with one of these two girls)

So to try somthing new (as a test) I decided to take it slow with these girls, the first I didnt make a move and just wanted to slowly spend more and more time with her. The other I waited to get my buddy's approval. Unfortuately, it seemed that the longer I waited the less interested they were in me. It is possible that the image I make of myself is for the one night stand guy but I really want to beat this. As my first two attempts at taking things slowly failed im wondering if it is ever the right move.

So my final question: When is it right to take it slowly and how should I preceed to taking it slow without making them lose interest?