I am 17 and in college, and as many of you may already know college games is tottaly different to the Game itself. It involves a lot more interaction and investment from the girl, therefore some may call it harder even, and often the opening lasts a lot longer, from weeks to even months. Now more to the point. I am still at the opening stages - i.e. we haven't gone on dates yet or i am embarassed to say, exchanged numbers. OK, don't laugh - there was one occasion where she actually offered me her number, but i declined due to circumstances, and becuase I had not become a member of the Game. Well my problem is recently this girl has started showing signs of depression, anger and just plain sadness. The confusing thing is that she smiles when she sees me and we talk as usual. But these things dont have the same spark they used to have. And I know am not going into the LJBF zone, because there is sexual tension. There are rumours that she has a bf, may this may be the cuase of the sadness. Who knows?
Well my question is how do you game a sad girl? How do you handle her? Do you just leave her until she gets over it? Do you ask her whats wrong? Do you try and cheer her up or do you just move on?
Thanks in advanced.

EDIT: I have posted this in the wrong place, can a moderator please move this post. Sorry

hmm...if i were you, i'd push-pull. be the good guy who calms her down and makes her happy, then desert (ignore for a bit, dont actually desert her) her for a randomer etc. and just keep doing that. by the end of it she should be gagging for, or on your cock

-teen

hey thanks man. I'll definatly try that. I was wondering do you have any more advice on college game? And also what age group are you. Just asking so i can relate to your advice and to give your advice the appropriate weight. Thanks again

As a 21 year old on the weekends, yet really 20 on the weekdays, and done plenty enough college gaming, you are completely right - it is different. I feel, however, that the college game would be real game watered down. Most guys in college don't have a clue, one real witty opener is really all it takes to seduce her back to your place at a party. Now, it seems in your situation that you have been working her for awhile and had this going on so I doubt the one night stand is in your mindset. I definitely will put stock and agree with the poster before me. If you are that one guy who gets her to coffee, makes her smile and forget about anything bothering her then all of a sudden "get very busy", not blow her off, not insult her, but make her see you are very caught up she'll look to you for that comfort she isn't doing elsewhere. Keep this up long enough she'll become dependent upon you for her happiness and become more and more desperate to gain your attention and affection. This is where you'll transition and nip her in the bag. Hopefully two people's validation on Push-Pull (delicately with this girl) is enough to give it a shot!

Push-Pull it is then. My question is how do I apprach this. When I see her looking angry, with this big frown on her face, or when she comes online (MSN) she has a :'( as her pm, how do I open her? Keep in mind I already know this girl pretty well, but not to an extenet where she'll share her problems with me.
In addition, on a pervios target I tried finding out what was wrong, but she didnta want to talk. I think you answers will be somewhere along the answers of, just cheer her up, rather focusing and brining attention to the problem - which will make her feel worse. Anyways please collabarate and add your personal views. Thanks.

In my best opinion don't let her mood dictate the game you would play with her. No matter the circumstances running game and opening should bring a sense of happiness and aspects of joy to each and every woman. Her mood shouldn't change your approach or freak you out, continue on with your normal business model. Single-handedly you should go with the approach to be that one person who can change her mood. The whole world, and every AFC out there, is asking her what is wrong. Be the variable in that equation. You seem to have a good understanding of what will work for her, no doubt you'll make it happen! In addition, if you can bring that sense of joy she'll eventually look to you for compassion and affection once you push-pull her (carefully) for awhile!

On another note, if this girl is gonna stick to this pessimistic approach to life and you can't fix it, I would say don't dwell on it. Unless you really like her, there are plenty of fish in the sea (cliche, but oh so true). Some girls are just.. Well we'll say everyone has their own interesting little nuances.

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Hey man thanks again for that. This may be getting a little annoying now, but I have some more questions for you. This smiling when we see each other, just today I smiled at quite a lot of girls that I know, and they weren't necessarly ones that i am gaming - so really I dont see the difference betweeen her smile and the ones am not gaming(i.e. the ones that may not be attracted). So am thinking should i take the smile as a IOI or is it just a normal way of greeting?
And on that point, what otehr advice and knowledge do you have about colleg game, in particular what advice do you have on interacting with the girl ( i have read books that focus on group sets rather than just interacting with just one girl)

No, don't worry about asking anything! Smiling is a natural act of courtesy. When someone smiles at you you have been taught to smile back at them. This is all ingrained in us since we are kids. I do believe, however, that there are different types of smiles. There are the courteous smiles, interest smiles and the smile just because it's a great day. This is a judgement call on your end. I will say if you're getting consistent smiles on a daily basis like that it can be nothing but a good thing. Take it as an IOI and boost your own confidence to make what you can happen! Nothin' wrong with getting a step up in your own mind.

I have done a lot of college game and I've always found it to be like shooting fish in a barrel, check that, dropping a grenade in a barrel, they're everywhere lol. It's just a different type of game. Opening sets in college is generally what you have to do. Most of the time girls are with girls. Unless they are in your classes, they're probably with their sisters, roomies or friends. The key to college game is to offer the one thing that the other guys don't have - direction, drive, foresight, motivation and ambition. Women in college will eat this up as they never see it. Implementing this into your lifestyle and routines will totally win them over. Speak eloquently, have a strong sense of self and know where you're heading in life. Don't make this overly clear and beat it into her, subtle hints work better. I think an outward appearance at the college game level can set you apart a great deal too. Workout, look like you're well kept, groomed, etc. it's a rarity in college and a welcome change for those women to see.

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I understand exactly what you mean about these smiles, but she sends me a totally mixed singals. I mean sometimes there is a sexaul spark to her smile, I mean she gave one where she got all shy, and the smile was almost too big for her face and she had to turn away cause it was getting a little embarasing. Other times it doesn't have the same spark. I dont know, maybe its a bad idea to compare all her normal smiles to the speacial one. What's you opinion on this? and have you got any ideas on what i should do when we see each other - i.e walking past each other in the corridoors, or on our way to lesson. I mean smiling was nice at the start - when i didnt get that many smiles from girls, but now it kinda lost its taste. Thanks again man, you're advice is a lot of help.

push pulling and freezing out if she doesn't do what you want (eg LMR)

oh, and im 16. i've been in the game since i was 12 though. yet still havn't had sex yet coz i dont feel i'm personally ready...and its annoying because i've turned it down 3 times...but next time i don't think i will if the moment and girl is right : )

if your walking past her in a hall...just ask for a high five, or stick you tongue out. i go with high fives personally.

-teen

Wow. Dude your 16? And the fact you have been gameing since 12 is SHOCKING. I just started recently a month or so back. Already thinking about an f-close nice nice. Tell me abit more about yourself. You in college yet/ sixth form? What you get for GCSE. Wait do you even life in the UK? Lol so many questions.