So im pretty new to this random pickup thing, I meet this hb8 online and we talk for about an hour before i convince her we should hangout she gives me her number without me asking but says dont save this unless i say to. So we go out for a few drinks and theres plenty of ioi and touching and i throw in some negs for the most part shes smiling and laughing the whole night. At the end of the night we go out to our cars and she asks for my phone and saves her name and number in it.
The next day i bonehead and text her around 5 pm saying i had a great time and would like to hangout with her again when she has the chance. Ofcourse i get no response.

Anyways I can fix this, this girl was hot and cool as hell so i'd like to see if its possible to do some damage control on my mistake

I would say, you should have set up a day two on the spot... your exchanging numbers so set up a time to see each other again.

now your going to fight the uphill battle, because you dont have quite enouph comfort yet, and the attraction will cool with time.

Give her a day or two and then just call her, leave a VM if she doenst answer and say your going to go hang out *somewhere*

set a date and time... and invite her along.. if she comes great.. if she responds with a im busy... sieze the moment to make plans with her right then.

if you dont get a responce... you might have to write this one off as lost.

JMT,
Lucky

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Setting up a second date when you are on the first one is a mistake. Implies neediness and that you aren't an occupied person. Messaging the day after (one or two message's only but no plans for new date) is better. Calling 3-4 later (4-5 days after 1st date) to set up a 2nd date is OK, I think. In the mean time, some occasional playful messaging or even a phone call (but with some DHV) is OK too.

Gamer...

I musta been tired when I read and posted that... I didnt see the Depending on the time laps between getting her to go out and the initial conversation... I still would argue that setting up a day 2 when out on your initial meet isnt out of the question...

IUt would just be how you word it...

aka. Im going out friday to *somewhere* if you want to come instead of...
do you want to hang out again on friday?

JMT,
Lucky

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I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.

OK, that would be alright I guess, especially if the girl displayed a lot of IOI's during the date. However, in the past such things have ruined my game (if I had any) a few times, especially with very hot girls. I seemed not to be able to control myself and I usually tried to setup a new date right after the first one. Bad thing!

Now, I wait until a day or two before I send the first txt message. Day 3 I mostly message again or pick up the phone to setup a new date. I never keep on messaging for long: 2 or 3 messages at max. Within 4 days, in most cases I have called once. At this moment, this works the best for me.

When setting up a date I always make sure to mention when I am not available to imply that I am busy. And of course, ending all convo's and dates first. And needless to say: keep sarging, no matter what.

And as far the phrase "I had a great time" is concerned, I first try to let her say it first (patience) before I confirm. I have the idea that especially the hot girls automatically assume that you had a great time and by spitting this up yourself is not going to help you. Better is when she expects you to say it, and you don't. Instead, you remain playful, cool and appropriate. In most cases, she comes up with it first, which is good.