So... I'm 17 years old, living in the Netherlands, and have been practicing my game for about 6 months now etc etc.
I go to this club about every saturday night. The music is too loud, and theres barely anything to sit on. The only place where you can decently hear eachother is in the puke smelling bathrooms. Going to another club is not an option. At least not for another 6 months.
Nonetheless, I'm enjoying myself. And manage to kiss close at least once every week. But since I never talk to any of these girls (never building comfort), I find it akward to text them some days later. It's like we went from attraction building straight to seduction, without even exchanging names. So most of the time, I end up never talking to these girls again. No biggie though, there's enough fish in the sea right? xd
But then, three weeks ago, a friend of mine (a girl whos always with a large group of friends) brought this really good looking girl with her. Not ashamed to admit I crapped my pants to aproach her (it's rare to find girls of her quality around here). So instead, I made some good eye contact while dancing with other girls, acting like I got plenty already.
The week after. Same thing, my friend showed up with the same girl. I act like I don't give a fuck. This time though, I got some really, really strong IOI's from her. And I respond to them, smiling back etc. Apperantly, my friend noticed. When we were about to leave, she came to me and told me her friend thinks I'm cute and that her friend wants me to dance with her next week. Jackpot.
So a couple days later. I tell my friend on msn that if she (the cute girl) wants to dance, she should come to me herself. (I figured her dance request was a hoop?)
That saturday, I went out again ofcourse. Not knowing if that girl still wanted to dance after what I told her friend on msn. But then I saw her just standing with 3 other guys (no threats, I knew these guys too, and so does she). My friend and her group were going to the movies. So chances were, she came by herself just to dance with me. Everything goes alright I guess. Even though I'm the one initiating the dance, we ended up kissing twice. After a while, my friends wanted to leave, so I go to her to make clear I'm leaving (notice how I say make clear instead of saying) and she gives me an eager kiss on the cheek (I was facing someone else when I stood there making signs xd).
I regret not getting her number (don't know why I didn't get it, forgot I guess). Because I didn't talk to her since (been 4 days now). I was hoping for my friend to talk to me on msn about it, but she doesn't. All she said was "So I heard you had a good time last night?" to which I responded "It was alright" (bad move?).
So this brings me here. Before I start asking what I should do next, I want to make clear this is not "oneitis". I'm not in love or anything. It's rare to find "HB10's" over here (or my standards are too high idk?) and I would just like to give it a shot instead of doing what I always did, which is nothing.
So what should my next move be? Remember, I never really talked to her, so there's pretty much no comfort. I know her name and that's it.
Thanks for reading.
CHAT