Last night I got coffee with this girl I had a major crush on in high school. We hugged before and after and she was dressed up in a really cute outfit which to me means she didn't view it as some casual thing. We got along really well and I made her laugh a lot. We both go to colleges which are like 4 hours away from each other but we live in the same hometown. Our semesters will be up in a month and I told her we should get together after and she said she would like that. Like an hour after the date we sent a couple texts and in the last one I said I think some mini golf is in order when we get back and the weather is nice. She texted back "Sounds like a plan! Have a good night " (she was watching a movie with her sis at the time we were texting).

I'm just curious what your guys thoughts are I should do for the next month, if anything, and also how you think I handled the first date. She's pretty conservative so I knew there wouldnt be any kissing or anything especially since we hadn't seen each other in that long. Please don't go into any one girl itis or whatever because I know all about it and I have other girls I'm pursuing...I just like her the most and would like your advice! Thanks!

right, dude, aslong as you know you have one itis, and she doesnt, it can work in your advantage, basically you need to bring out the cocky/funny, as im sure most people in this lounge would agree, when you were hugging each other would of been a perfect time to just go "hey, thats all your getting" and lightly push her away, make her want you.

first date sounded pretty straight forward and easy going, so mini golf is a good way to build kino escalation aswell by helping her with her swing, or asking her to teach you that crazy style of hitting she does... im just making it up as i go along but you get the idea. you can through in light negs like... "really... how do you even hit a ball like that" then move on to the "come here, and teach me that crazy method" it sounds plausable but as i said, it just came to my head so im sure you can think of something

you can also make a little bet on the outcome... "if you win... etc etc"

but yea, always remember, bratty lil sister... not your one itis