As the title indicates, I met this really cute HB 8 at a party 2 weeks ago and I really hit it off with her....I K-closed her twice and right before I left I got her number.

Well, I texted her right after we left and she sounded really into me. A couple of days later, I texted her w/ the 'I saw your twin today' and teased her back and forth about that. A few days after that I called, didnt get an answer but I left a message. I kinda screwed that up by sounding too nonchalant and didnt get a call back (although im my erxperience women rarely call back during the first few phone calls) I tried calling her and texted her the next day...and still got nothing.

There was a party at a mutual friends where i was sure she'd be at. Well the turn out at the party wasnt all that great at all and when she showed up she was the only attractive girl there w/ about 3 or 4 dudes including myself.

I said a quick hello and kinda ingnored her the first bit of the party (she never called me back so i wanted to act like it didnt affect nme too mcuh) after she showed up. I see her in the back and I start BSing w/ her for a bit. Good connection so far....But long story short she was constantly surrounded by other dudes and I never really got too much of a chance to isolate her. Not only that, I just could never reinitiate any kind of kino (i tired some palm reading BS and totally screwed it up) Our connection kind of faded toward the end of the night....

Meanwhile my buddy is trying to game her up as well and at the end of the night he says he gets a date w/ her or somehting.....I on the hand didnt even get a goodbye.....It didnt seem like she was disinterested but as she's pretty young and passive I realized i should have initiated it.....But I just couldnt quite grab her attention like I did the first night so well....

So my question is, how do i proceed? Do i try to call her again? IF so, when? Or do I let my buddy bomb on the date first (either that or I think she might have been just being nice and will blow him off).....Or do I wait until i run into her again (somewhat likely) and try to get things going again??

Ah the kiss close with no follow up...

there are tons of posts on this very issue...

pretty much what happens is a girl kisses you but its built only on the surface attraction... and not much comfort has been built...
so after she is away from you and a day or two passes.. the attraction fades, reality kicks in and she looses interest. this is why some people advise not going for a K-close unless some time has been spent or perhaps a bounce to build that much needed comfort.

ALSO if you kissed her.. why didnt you set a day 2 right then?

but I digress
NOPE... you dont need her remember... youve called and txted and even saw her at a party and she wastn interested.

put it on ice and move on... revisit in a month or so with a "hey im heading out to *somewhere* with some friends... you should come out if your free."

if you get no response... drop it.


JMT,
Lucky

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I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.