so i met this chick last summer, we met through mutual friends, saw each other on ocassion more and more the past few months, the past few weeks she's been coming over to hang out/drink beer/make dinner/listen to records.
she's had a boyfriend which she is still living with, of which she broke up with a few weeks ago. we hung out after they broke up and she told me the whole story whatever.
i went out of town for a week and tonight was the first time we met up. she was texting me all day and i was being super flirty (as always). i told her about this cool bar close to my house and she asked if it was classy. i responded along the lines of "you know how we do. i've got a suit, i hope you've got a cute little black dress". when i picked her up, she was SUPER pumped to see me and kept hugging me stronger than she ever has before.
we go to said bar. good times, constant conversation and very friendly. i definitely kino escalated throughout the night. during our time at the bar she tells me more about her ex-bf situation (shes still living with him, seperate rooms) which is f-ed up and i can understand it's weighing a lot on her mind. she mentions other dudes that she's kinda seeing that are douches. and texts them and tells me what she's saying (ie: "i'm wearing heels"). she also brought up several times how she made a bet with our friend of who could make out with a dude first. so LOTS of mixed signals. but i really feel i did a great job of being a cool guy/DHV'ing/good stories/etc. HOWEVER, i really feel all these dudes in her life is already fucking her up enough, idk if i'm the answer.
by the end of the night, we're real close in the booth being real friendly. she mentions things like if i would bring her home to my mom, whatever.
walking back to my car, she asks if i can walk her back to her apartment. i agree, and my arm's around her the whole time. about to get to the door and she's saying how she had a really good time tonight and how she's glad i'm not some douche causing more drama in her life, etc.
now i really feel like i could have gotten the *close, but definitely getting totally mixed signals throughout the night. she's a really cool girl that since we've started to hang out/she had a bf, i've come to appreciate her as just a cool hot friend. but now i fear i'm getting deeper and deeper into LJBF zone. i feel from some of the things she said tonight she digs me, but really didn't feel i had enough for the close.
anyways. any advice from this? we're hanging out tomorrow again and cooking dinner, etc.
thanks so much for your help guys. i've been super AFC the past few months and really need to get back into the game. although tonight i really tried being observant and picking up signals and i'm just totally lost
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