Hey all,

Basically I've got a date tomorrow with a girl I hooked up with last Friday at a club. We knew each other (not very well) before that and it was a little odd that I k-closed her on that night. We were at mental blanks since we hadn't spoken in ages.

Anyway, I saw her tonight and we had a few drinks at our uni campus. I seem to be picking up on some signs (playful kino and lok w/eyes). I could be misinterpreting. I'm a guy, after all. Prior to that, we had already set up a date tomorrow night at a bar. I don't think we explicitly knew it was a date but nonetheless, we agreed for a few drinks tomorrow night.

I've just been out of a relationship for about 2 months now and she's been out of her for roughly 3 months now. I'd consider her a HB8. More to the point, I lost all knowledge of the social dating world because my last relationship really fucked me up and took its toll on me. Right. Enough of the sentiments.

I suppose all I'm really asking is what should I consider during this date? I never had a massive problem with going on dates but now I'm slightly nervous since I find myself a tad interested in this girl.

Is there a possibility I can k-close her on the first date? If so, what should I keep in mind? Plus, this girl isn't your typical girl that you'd pick up at any random club. So, I can't really imagine a extremely forthright seductive move to be the best one for tomorrow night - if that makes any sense.

Appreciate any comments at all.

coeus

Dude, ur set.
you got her to go on a date with you
This means you already built Attraction and Raport


Seduce and destroy
once you meet her at the club start ur conversation
Now. your gonna have to act like you just went out with her because
you felt obligated to. once she starts talking to you pretend like ur kinda interested then start talking to other people while she is talking
if you do this right, she will want more and more attention
and she will seek validation from you

make her think your only listening to like 40 percent of it


GoodLuck

Hey mate, thanks for the advice.

However, we're not meeting at a club and it's a chick I already know. Read my post again.