Okay, I really don't deserve any advice but I'm hoping I can get some help here.

I have finally come to grips with my sticking point: sexuality.

It is not that I'm afraid of sex, but it appears that women haven't been able to percieve me as a sexual being--particularly lately.

I am genuinely attractive and hook sets and girls and build attraction easily.

Here is my example:

I was just starting to see this girl and on our first date we were laying together on her couch just watching a movie. Nothing about this seemed awkward. We were talking about what was going on between us and I said "I don't know why I haven't kissed you yet." With this, I reached for her face to turn to coser to me, but she resisted. I admonished and DHVed and later she turned to me and we did kiss. It was brief but was meant to see what was there. I left shortly afterwards, and didn't kiss her again. A day later she revealed that we felt like friends (ugh!) and she couldn't view me sexually.

Was I just being a pussy? Was I not assertive enough? I wasn't assertive because we were still trying to figure out how we felt and I didn't want to overwhelm her.

Moment #37 to relive once I invent that time machine.

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-Duke