Hi

I met this girl a couple of weeks ago at a party. She gave me plenty of IOI's but i failed to move or escalate. I know big mistake. However the next day she added me on facebook and sent me her number telling me to text her. We had a texting session that evening, i found out that she was leaving on holiday the next day, for a week, but annoyingly i was leaving for a holiday before she got back. So while i was away she texted me again asking how i was, i said alll was good for me ect. Then i asked how she was and weather she was back. She started telling me how she was good but had a shit valentines day with her gay friend (definite IOI) then she told me to call her when i get back to organise something. I just got back two days ago and think i should probably text her to organize something. My question is a one on one session going to be to much after only having met her once at a party? What sort of thing should i organize? I was thinking maybe a movie at mine? Am i loosing my higher value by texting her to organize something?

Thanks For your help

If you're worried about the texting being a dlv than you could call her to set something up and tell her something came up and your kinda busy. then text or call later and set it up. or you can throw in some negs to your phone game.

About the movie at your place, I think its a safe bet if she's given you a decent amount of ioi's which it sounds like she has.

You could also try what mystery does and tell her to come by your place before you go out somewhere and then tell her you had something come up and she needs to come in and wait for a sec, then show her something in your room and try to make the actual date an afterthought and escalate it in your room/house.

if she's giving you alot of IOIs, then a in home date is no problem. just dont ask her, tell her that you're inviting her to ur place. or, another thing i like to do is to invite her to go out with you and some friends, and at the last minute....tell her ur friends canceled and you feel bad. then tell her that you still wanna go out...then its just her and you buddy. GOLDEN