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| snaketales | PostPosted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 3:50 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Aug 18, 2008 2:06 pm Posts: 14 | | Hello All,
I am doing a lot of daygame and i talk with the girl's about 20 minutes 30 minutes.
But what i notice is that i get contact details the girls all flake?!?!?!
It's so frustating, what must i do?
I talk a lot about myself and stuff and the girl is attracted to me whenever i want to call they act busy dont pickup the phone, dont respond to e-mail's what the f*k?
Why do they flake?
I open always direct on daygame, and the girls are receptive.
1. i Open
2. I Talk with the girl (15 minz)
3. I try to ask questions about her (5+-)
4. I close And they flake.
My wings dont understand cause the girl looks so attracted to me.
I must build comfort, but what is comfort can anyone give me some examples?
Or must i run more more A3 material?
Must i also # close or @ close?
Maybe in daygame a #close is uncomfortable for the girl and via email (Messenger) is more comfortable for the girl?
Anyone suggestions for me?
Thanks!
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| Snapper | PostPosted: Sun Feb 08, 2009 5:21 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Jan 03, 2009 12:01 am Posts: 5 | | I have found chicks can be really into you, if only because you are into them. They love the attention but don't feel compelled to continue (maybe cos you didn't play hard to get enough). They just think it's cool that you have complimented them but don't really want to continue with it.
If you are direct in the opener then they know that you like them, they take it as a compliment and are all happy and smiley because you are giving them attention.
Is she actually attracted to you or is she just happy to hear you think she is hot/pretty/has a confident persona. Maybe try the indirect method...make her wonder whether you like her or not. Also put yourself as the higher valued one. If you be direct and she is hot in a sense you are putting HER on the pedestal. If it was one chick I'd say bad luck, move on. If it's multiple women then I'd say it's what I've said above.
Try indirect and then casually say at the end "you know what? You've kinda cool/fun to be around/whatever. I'm going to the movies tomorrow afternoon. Come hang out with me." If she says, "yes." Grab her number. If she says no then say, "aw bummer and we were having so much fun too." And then leave it at that.
I think I'm on the right track here...
Any other suggestions guys.
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