Was at the club last night and got a phone number close. My first one ever I think. Anyways what kind of phone game should I run? Should I just try to convo for a little bit or should I try to make plans and if so what sort? We talked for about 15 minutes at the club and the only thing I really know about her is she traveled alot through Europe. Since she talked about traveling I DHV''d her about my travels through Asia and me traveling alot since Im in the Navy.

I would say text first. Make a name for her. Make it short and playful.

Don't do it today. Wait until tomorrow or the next day.

But don't wait more. You want her to still remember you.

I don't know what you guys talked about but you can text first

Something along the lines of :

you: Hey traveler girl! something reminded me of you today.
her: What?
you: Saw this cute fat lady with a shirt that said " i love italy"
her: lol
you: i need your help
her: what's going on?
you: i'm working on a secret plan to kidnap you thursday night and i need your help..

go from there and see where it goes...



Bluelover

Awesome man. I love the fat lady line ill definetely use that one. Reading the PUA books it says I should try to schedule something casual in the middle of the week and appear "Busy" most of the time. Some other maybe useful facts:

1. I opened by asking her how shitty her photos looked (she was taking pics at the club with a camera phone). I then took some with my digi cam and of course they didnt look much better. When I closed her I told her we can compare crappy pics next time round.

2. Talked about how evil Wal-Mart is for destroying small businesses.

3. Crappy holiday shopping experiences.

So I was thinking of meeting her for a cup of joe or does anybody else have any good maybe innovative ideas of what to do? Def dont want to do the dinner or movie or anything along those lines.

Here in the town i live. There's like a trendy place near the beach with expensive stores, restaurants, etc...

I met hbshark a couple of days ago.. i'm taking her there tomorrow. I've taken a couple of my previous pick ups there. Having success.

Just walking around talking. There are benches where we can seat. Also we can go to the beach when it's getting dark and just sit down and talk.

It's free so you don't spend any money. And you just have to come across with the attitude of " you're cute and i just want to see what you're like"

That's the mindframe.

Good luck budy.