Hi

Need some great ideas to figure out wheter she has a boyfriend or not before I invest to much energy and time in a girl . obviously it is a pretty dumb question to ask . Especially because it is like saying:: " Hey if you dont have a boyfriend I am interested in you" .... what a loss

I was thinking of lines like: "are you protected game or on the free run?" but still a bit cheesy.

Any tips for a fast easy way to find out.


ps: before you tell me a real PUA does not care about boyfriends - I know...

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How can I be satisfied with something I only achieved because I am never satisfied (Me, 2005)

Straight from David DeAngelo. Watch it, it's really complicated...

"Are you single?"

I usually ask this question when I'm out with my boys at a restaurant either talking to a nearby set or to the waitress. I usually state the reason I'm asking is that I want to make sure to control my sexiness so that I don't break any hearts tonight.

lets forget DD forawhile and make this what it is, if she does'nt tell you if she's single or not..then your good to game, if she does tell you after awhile us a bf destroyer and roll with that, follow the PU community guide line if you wish to do so and do not engage girls in serious relationships.

Or do it the SF way and fuck it, if she wants to sleep with you why should you get in your own way?

Dont ask, and you wont know best to keep it at that. and cant be held responsible for something you never did do, and that was fucking a taken girl, you cant make a girl cheat if you dont know if she's taken or not, can you?

therefor you never did anything wrong =) she was the one!

Ahh how sweet ignorance can sometimes be bliss, is this one those times I think so!

SF, premium asshole.

her: yea im an accountant (or really anything)
me: so what does ur boyfriend think of you being an accountant

i copied this from a comedian forget who and u can replace accountant for anything else.

you are being too vague

If you have talked to her several times over the phone and hung with her once or twice and she hasnt told you she has one, it either doesnt matter to her or she doesnt have one. If you really want her to know you're interested and at the same time find this out, next time you are out with her, just be like "so whats your man think of you and me having such a good time without him here?" and smile. she will like it either way, and she will know whats up.

you shouldnt be focusing on this you should be focusing on how you are gonna get with her. Her having a boyfriend, not having a boyfriend, or not caring about having one will reveal itself whenever.

totally agree with SF..

just go in - game her and forget about wondering if she is single or not. let her worry about that shit the next morning.

i have been in situations where i have built enough comfort and IOI's etc to go for a kclose - but hit LMR with a boyf. But it just took more work to finally get what i wanted... and what she wanted (or she wouldnt have done it).

i can see how asking ca be beneficial, while also signalling your intent - but i think its DLV.

and FC - that pic is unreal man....

Thanks for that. Guess it is as always - adapt to current situation.
But I like the accountant one. Seems the most adaptable.

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How can I be satisfied with something I only achieved because I am never satisfied (Me, 2005)

I never ask if she's single or not
I just game,
if she brings her bf up,
I take that as a good thing
why? One, she is actually got company, not a loner
and two, it allows me to do this, if i get over the whole bf thing, i'll fuck her
why? because he (bf) would be the barrier between me and her

so don't worry about whether or not she has a boyfriend
just go and game away, she should be the one bringing things up, not you

if she has a boyfriend and it's serious, you will notice
if she has a boyfriend but it's ready to play another game, then game her

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