So I hosted a party the other night at my flat for my friend's bday. This party was live and everyone was having a good time. I met a blonde model def. 9.0 status (-) the tots. I was on top of my game and had that feeling of invincibleness. We were hooking up throughout the night and she wanted to get it on. I took her to my room to you know show her a "cool book" and everything was cake. I decided I would rather be hanging out with her outside of the party and I turned her down for sex because I didn't want to do this with all these people at my place (I know playing hard to get wasn't a bad thing/not desperate). In the back of my head I knew I was going to do this anyways when she told me that she was going to stay the night. So later that night her insecure / 9.5 friend complains that she wants to leave the party. She was feeling insecure because she was the only one in her group of friends that didn't have a man. So she calls for a group meeting... literally (shes like the group leader) and the girl that I was with decides to leave as well as my roomates girl. My girl conforms to this bitch because she is the alpha-female of the group and she doesn't want to start problems with her roommate. We were both disappointed and I was kind of an asshole to this alpha-female because of her bitchy "I get my way all the time" personality really turned me off. I told my girl look I just stepped into your life tonight, don't ruin this friendship over me. I understand." She gives me her number and texts me that night telling me how much fun she had.

I would have hung out with her sunday, but she had a modeling shoot early in the morning. We text and I told her basically that I was tired because I was out late last night after she told me she was tired from working a 12 hour shift.
She: "we have a lot of sleeping to catch up on."
Me: "I'm to hyped up on adies and I am going to need a back-rub to fall asleep."
She: "Only if your lucky."

After this I didn't reply. She texted me later that day asking me if I had seen this movie. yea yea blah blah -- I think she was trying to get me to ask her to come over, but she wanted me to do this in like a pimp sly way. Lots of work stopped me from doing this. I have several questions?

1) How should I apologize or get her friends to like me more so they encourage her to see me (ex: one friend was jokingly complaining that she got an std - i laughed and pointed to her chest which had a massive pimple and told her "the std is on your chest). I know she really likes me, but I don't want to risk even the slightest chance of her not seeing me because of her friends.

2) How should I play it from this point on? Like I was thinking asking her to cook with me. I know she wants to hang out with me again, but she obviously wants me to invite her over in a way that doesn't drool for sex.

PS: I'm apologize for this massive story I just really don't want to fuck it up with this girl. I really like her. Any advice would help.

- onelove